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8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Olivia Munn and The Th... · 0 replies · -5 points

Didn't watch it. I looked it up and "West Wing" and stuff was recommended and I don't watch those shows, so I guess that explains why I hadn't seen it.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Olivia Munn and The Th... · 4 replies · -21 points

Olivia Munn is stuck as Attack of the Show to me, where she was (played?) a ditzy reporter. Never a fan of hers.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: How ... · 5 replies · +37 points

Am I the only one that got halfway through the second sentence of LW2 and screamed DTMF? I'm really surprised Doc took a knee to this one--sounds like this guy is awful.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - What To Do When You've... · 0 replies · +6 points

I lost track in the threads, but I very much appreciated whoever posted about Couch of Plausible Deniability.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - What To Do When You've... · 0 replies · +3 points

Crashing a car is different from crashing your dick into someone.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - What To Do When You've... · 0 replies · +5 points

Being nice to your face and running around behind your back is classic cheater action. They make you feel like the most important person in the world until they are with the next person that is the most important person in the world.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - What To Do When You've... · 0 replies · +4 points

Say we'd been going out frequently for 3-6 months, and then I found out last weekend his ex was in town and they had sex. Technically I guess it's my fault for not spelling it out in concrete words that we were going steady, but there is that room for ambiguity that I'd be more willing to forgive.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - What To Do When You've... · 2 replies · +8 points

I'd like to hear more from the Doc about how to check yourself if you are on a destructive path. Address these underlying issues before you do something stupid. (I'll admit I have not read every article he's written, but I know he's written similar articles about getting over cheaters and put the onus on the cheat-ees before.)

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - What To Do When You've... · 12 replies · +4 points

I feel the opposite. If we were dating a few months, and hadn't had "the talk" and they slept with someone else, I'd be more willing to forgive. (Or at least walk away with less animosity)

But ten years, and that person wants to throw it all away? All our time together apparently means less than that one chance to bone another person.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - What To Do When You've... · 8 replies · +10 points

I can't think of any scenario where it would be okay for my partner to cheat and I would forgive. So what if they "own" up to it? What could they do to "win" back my trust? From then on, every fight, every disagreement, every moment they weren't in my sight or didn't answer my call or text, I'd be certain they were cheating on me. And why shouldn't I?

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