I'm @TonjaC. Many of my first responses have already been mentioned either by you or by commenters. Thanks for letting us discuss this - it's good to know you're not alone. One frustration is when churches try to cater to too many opinions and preferences and end up reaching no one well. Another is what I tweeted in response to you yesterday - it's frustrating to not be able to honestly publicly say what really frustrates you because you're afraid of being called an unspiritual whiner.

By the way - both this post and yesterday's both say to check back Thursday for the winner. Does that mean you're giving away two today, and I've missed out on the deadline for this one? Or did you mean to say Friday on this one? Just curious

Congratulations everyone!

Thanks Clover