I guess my issue is more that I'm not sure what it means. Are we objectifying these men for their looks? Or for their parenting ability?

I teach preschool-- and guess what? The kids who show up on the first day with their own bottle of Purel are ALWAYS the ones who spend the most time out sick. They aren't ever able to build an immunity to ANYTHING.

And-- this is kind of off subject-- but all those chemicals in baby stuff? Man alive. We have been using cloth diapers on our baby since day one, but one day forgot the diaper bag and had to grab disposables from the store. Dude-- after she wet one, it SMELLED so chemically (compared to cloth) that it made me wonder what is in them!