Exaaaaaactly this!

you see this is the very reason why black chicks can get a man. [assuming that you meant can't here] because they play games! men don't like games!

C'mon now, it's too early in the morning for all that. I mean damn, the post doesn't even say she's black, nor is that fact even relevant. Just because she made poor choices, she now represents an entire race of women? Chill. And men don't like games? Are you serious? Get thee entire FOH! I agree that her actions appeared to be more immature than his, and she took too long to make a decision. But that doesn't make her "an unappreciative bitch who thinks she wears the pants."
My dude, Who Hurt You?
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I see no problem with dating outside of my race. If the attraction is there, I couldn't care less that the guy isn't black. My family is multiracial though, so I've been around interracial couples my entire life. I do think that your background influences how you feel about dating outside of your race.
I have friends that have will say, "I love my black men too much to end up with a white man." And that's fine if you feel that way. Ultimately, I'd prefer a black man, but I'm not going to limit myself.
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As a fellow Laker fan, I approve this comment.

That being said, I'm also an alum of The Ohio State University. But, I'm not a Buckeye Football fan. I'm a die-hard Michigan Wolverines fan. GO BLUE!!! I defend my stance, and will love Michigan 'til the day I die. Win or lose, everyone knows I support Michigan. I have a very valid reason, IMHO, but I get every reaction possible, from people understanding once they find out - to people cursing me and telling me I need to leave Ohio and how dare I have attended Ohio State and that I'm a traitor. To be honest, I give zero f*cks about anyone's opinion about what college football team I support. I didn't choose my college based on their football team, especially since last time I checked, I was not recruited. It was just a coincidence that I team I love is my school's most hated rival for the past 100 years or so. *shrug*
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I'm from Cleveland, OH. I saw a fellow Clevelander upthread that basically said everything that needs to be said about how all Cleveland teams are hot garbage and why I've never been a fan of the Browns, Indians, Cavs, Crunch, Lumberjacks, whatever our WNBA team is called, or any other professional sport we have that I've forgotten.
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GREAT post! I love recognizing growth in myself, especially when I didn't consciously set out to make the change. Knowing that that I'm mature, successful, pragmatic, etc. just forces me to realize that I'm embracing adulthood.
My exes have all been older than me, but acted very immature. When I finally tired of them and their Peter Pan ways, I decided that my next guy would have all his sh*t together. When I finally found a guy like that, I was so intimidated. It was completely foreign territory to me. I'm not used to having a relationship with anyone who actually challenges me. It's refreshing and scary at the same time. I'm looking forward to the experience...

I was drooling right along with you, lol.

I'm thinking that the movie is "The Other Guys."

I love this addition to SBM. I see y'all doin' big thangs these days!
As someone who is entirely addicted to fashion, I'll be looking forward to these posts. There are few things I'd rather see than a well-dressed man. I'd love to meet a man whose Sperry game is on point and wears tailored blazers w/ elbow patches. Lawd!