I can relate to that so much Danny partly because I have a background in photography so one of things that interests me is the way photos are composed, the lighting equipment used, shutter speeds, exposure, appature so sometimes I'm looking past the image itself . Also it is posible to admire nude or erotic photography without finding it sexual or arousing.

This attitude that a man must be able to get instantly aroused for any attractive woman who crosses his path lest his pressious hetrosexuality be called into question is stupid and reductive like those obnoxious "Gay Test" demotivational posters.