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14 years ago @ Life on the Swingset - Cooper's Manifesto - W... · 0 replies · +1 points

that makes me so happy that it meant that much to you!

14 years ago @ Life on the Swingset - Ep 4: Compersion VS Je... · 0 replies · +1 points

Jealousy is a tough thing, and it\'s something no one can tell you how to rid yourself of, but it IS something you can make go away. You just need to be calm and rational about it.

14 years ago @ Life on the Swingset - Ep 29: Porn, Bisexuals... · 0 replies · +1 points

I would personally love to hear from some folks who\'ve gotten started this way.

14 years ago @ Life on the Swingset - Flying Solo - Do Fuck ... · 0 replies · +1 points

Marilyn and I both have our fuckbuddies, as well as playmates where we can see one half of the couple when others are busy. Giving each other the freedom to also explore on our own has been very good for us, but understandably not for everybody.

Many people in this lifestyle will try to convince you that the ONLY reason they're doing this is to share this amazing experience together. I postulate that deep down, almost every one of us wonders about that time out on our own, to explore, to experience the forbidden fruit of that hotel room or lunch time tryst (all carefully co-ordinated with our sig other of course) that swinging as a couple just doesn't allow for.

And while I acknowledge fully that there are swingers who almost never want to do this, just as there are vanillas who ALMOST never want to explore beyond the boundaries of monogamy...it's the almost that tells the real tale.

14 years ago @ Life on the Swingset - Ep 29: Porn, Bisexuals... · 0 replies · +1 points

Generally, I would wager the reason it\'s not discussed openly is that it MAY be a source of embarrassment for the couple...just a possibility

14 years ago @ Life on the Swingset - iTunes Doesn't Like Th... · 0 replies · +1 points

Actually Playboy can\'t get the ipad to carry it. They\'re creating a specific ipad viewable collection of their magazines on their site because they can\'t get an app in there...

14 years ago @ Life on the Swingset - A Year On The Swingset... · 0 replies · +3 points

What a co-incidence...I love eating..um...your....cat.... Innuendo is not my strong suit.

Let\'s go fuck.

14 years ago @ Life on the Swingset - Review: Sex Is Fun! by... · 0 replies · +1 points

Thanks!

14 years ago @ Life on the Swingset - Swingers 2: Polyamory ... · 0 replies · +1 points

I agree with all that, and this isn\'t an idea taken lightly. We\'ve been with quite a few newbies, some have grown into full blown swingers, but most with potential just did their best to drag us down with them. Don\'t forget, drama in one couple\'s lives can EASILY seep into their playmates.

14 years ago @ Life on the Swingset - Swingers 2: Polyamory ... · 0 replies · +1 points

it\'s giving people time to figure out what they want BEFORE swinging with them. I think it\'s a better plan moving forward, while communicating with them to help them in their journey.

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