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12 years ago @ http://www.queenbeedix... - Doing it all for the G... · 1 reply · +1 points
13 years ago @ Single Dad Laughing - Grandparents say the w... · 0 replies · +1 points
She also told me to be:
Firm in courting
Soft in love, and
Flexible in marriage.
13 years ago @ Single Dad Laughing - Real Dads Don\'t Leave · 1 reply · +2 points
All of this makes me all the more thankful to have married the man I did. I couldn't have asked for a better father for my kids, I know that if God forbid we were to ever divorce, he would do everything he could to be a daily part of our kids life, and wouldn't be able to be away from them for very long. His face just lights up when the kids greet him at the door when he comes home from work, and when they spend the weekend at their grandparents he is missing them after an hour. I could have been another statistic...repeating the cycle, having a kids with a dad like mine were, a dad who would break their heart, somehow, through pickiness on my part, or probably sheer good luck I married a guy who will only fill their hearts with love.
13 years ago @ Single Dad Laughing - Just dance · 0 replies · +1 points
13 years ago @ Single Dad Laughing - The Dog Poop and the W... · 0 replies · +3 points
What I also got from this was that sometimes all it takes is the hurtful words or actions of one person to make us feel so horrible about something good we have done that it deafens us to the hundreds of voices of praise.
13 years ago @ Single Dad Laughing - Worthless men and the ... · 0 replies · +1 points
It bothers me when I see a spouse, whether it is a wife or husband deride their mate. I mean don't get me wrong, I think it is healthy to vent some frustrations, but there is a difference between being frustrated by a situation and calling your spouse names, or telling people how incompetent, lazy, stupid, inconsiderate, etc... they are. You (general you) obviously married them for a reason...there had to be something good about them for you to commit to them, and if you can't find that good in them anymore, if you can't find those positive traits anymore then it might be time to look into yourself and see if the reason you can't see them is because they are gone, or because you have blinded yourself with negativity. Basically it comes down to love and mutual respect. I try not to say negative things to or about my husband, because I respect him as a person, because I love him as my husband, and because I know it would crush him if I said negative things about him...just like it would crush me if he said them about me.
13 years ago @ Single Dad Laughing - Phase two of the impos... · 0 replies · +3 points
2.) I wanted to travel alone even though "it dangerous for a woman". Four years traveling...it was a blast!
13 years ago @ Single Dad Laughing - The small side of the ... · 0 replies · +3 points
Let me put it this way. I quit smoking several months ago. Everyday I struggle with wanting a cigarette, and not picking up another bad habit to replace them. Now everyday I also make an active choice to not smoke, to not give in to the craving/temptation, the addiction. I actively choose to not stuff my face with food to replace the cigarette, especially because I have had food issues/binge eating problems in the past. Every time the compulsion comes up to want to smoke, or to grab something from the fridge even though I am not hungry, I make a conscious effort to not give in, so that I can be in the small percentage that will not start smoking again, or will not start binge eating again. I do however struggle...even though the decision to not go back to my own ways is starting to become automatic, the urge still lies underneath.
One more thing I want to add though is why is struggling a bad thing? Why does it have to be a negative? It doesn't mean failure, or loser, it doesn't mean all is lost. It's about fighting, whether it's fighting to overcome an addiction, a disorder, or the automatic inclination to drive past an accident on the side of the road. It's about striving for something better, for a healthier life, a happier marriage, being a better parent or making that active decision, one more day to not give into that nasty voice that tells us we need that cigarette, beer, drug, whole cake,or to exercise for 5 hours to burn off that cheese sandwich in order to cope. Perhaps if struggling was thought of as something positive, as fighting for something that is worthwhile in your life, then maybe being part of the big number in a statistic wouldn't seem so daunting...or so hopeless.
13 years ago @ Single Dad Laughing - When friends won\'t leave · 0 replies · +1 points
13 years ago @ Single Dad Laughing - Single Dad Laughing - ... · 0 replies · +4 points
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