I believe it. But no matter it strikes me as a good approach. As I said, first we got to get our own house in order.
There is and old joke about the old mule skinner and the young mule skinner. The old mule skinner tells the young mule skinner that these mules are really sensitive creatures and you have got to use pshycology to get them to do what you want. So the old mule skinner reaches under the box seat and gets out a four foot 2x4, walks up the head mules and hits them both over their forehead with the 2x4. He calmly waks back to the wagon and gets up on the box seat. The young mule skinner is stunned and says I thought you said they were sensitive creatures and you had to use pshycology on them. The old mule skinner says that's right but first you got to get their attention! It seems that this is the teachable moment here. I concur.

I belive there may be more trigger pullers out there than you think.