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16 years ago @ facenews - Phil Prevost's List Of... · 0 replies · +1 points

I want more foodie articles. This was great.

16 years ago @ facenews - Man Beaten Outside Of ... · 0 replies · +1 points

I'm not 6'8", just 6'4". Sheesh, gotta keep his pride and make me sound like a monster. That's why I bitch-slapped him the first time.

16 years ago @ facenews - Hey chingpea, ‘How D... · 0 replies · +1 points

Sounds like you're coming up on your mid-20's with no reference for being single as an adult. Think about how little you knew about love and life as a teenager compared to now, and then try to imagine how little you know now, compared to what you'll know in another 6 years. Then look at how much "bigger" a situation you're making this than it has to be.

Be up-front and direct. Don't waste words.

Or you could be spineless and leave a voicemail.

16 years ago @ facenews - Hooker Bust: Craigslis... · 0 replies · +2 points

But keep the funny signs.

16 years ago @ facenews - Hooker Bust: Craigslis... · 2 replies · +2 points

No, no, no.

Decriminalize it.
Regulate it.
Tax It.

16 years ago @ facenews - Hey chingpea, 'She Doe... · 0 replies · +1 points

"Love triangles like these never end in bliss"

I think that's an unfair generality, but then again, I'm a swinger. lol.

Chingpea is right to ask questions about the foundations of their relationship, and just where you're straddling the fence. It sounds like everyone needs to be more honest here. You only live once, so live it up. I stole my wife from a good guy, and I don't regret it at all.

I'm reminded of the fact that women will buy shoes to keep other women from getting them. In this situation, she might cling to him if you make a move - so I'd suggest you set them both down and tell them how you feel. If you're really a "trio" then it'll be much more natural than pretty much anything anyone else is suggesting.

NOTE: The third option of becoming a poly-amorous trio is also open, but remember, you live in Bakersfield. That stuff is considered crazy out here. ;)

16 years ago @ facenews - Hey chingpea, 'Help Me... · 0 replies · +1 points

"I just don’t want to “Google” and find stuff that my stomach wouldn’t be able to handle."

Translation: I'm not sure I'm brave enough to explore my boundaries beyond the meat and potatoes I've grown bored with, because I have hangups about dirty stuff.

Solution: Ask yourself why any sexual kink would be too much for you to stomach. While there are exceptions to the rule, most folks aren't screwing barnyard animals or starring in home-made bukkake videos. For the most part, people are just exploring the edge of their comfort zones and finding they really like some of it. So, Google the heck out of stuff that makes your head spin. Then Google a little deeper.

NOTE: If anyone tells you that hot candle wax stuff is sexy? Slap em in the face.

16 years ago @ facenews - Hooker Bust: Craigslis... · 0 replies · +2 points

Love that image.

16 years ago @ facenews - Bako's Real Lord Of Tr... · 0 replies · +2 points

I did think Bakersfield had only Bingo. I'll have to check that out.

16 years ago @ facenews - 7 Random Destinations ... · 1 reply · +1 points

They moved the Coca-Cola museum to Altanta, Georgia and now they serve every product they make in the world there. Its hundreds of different flavors like apple soda, licorice, pistachio, etc.

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