sage_mahosadha
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In what other circumstances do we allow those who perpetrate a potentially abusive or destructive act on another human being be the ones charged with the responsibility of determining if said act is indeed abusive or not? Do we allow a rapist to determine if his or her acts of violence and violation against another are indeed that or something more benign? Do we allow bullies to be the ones to determine the scope and effects of their actions? Racists? Homophobic people? People who are the ones trafficking in human slavery and child prostitution? No. People who perpetrate acts of potential violence against others are not the ones who can be trusted, in any such circumstance, to be the ones to make these determinations. For surely they will almost always dramatically downplay the severity of their actions.
In this case, like it or not, it is child therapists, psychologists, counselors and other professionals in related fields who are the ones who are best suited to make these determinations. I am an African American clinical psychologist. So I know the glaring historical problems with letting mental health professionals make these determinations--historically, these are the same type professionals who once upon a time said that separate but equal was a sound educational approach with regard to the educating of black and white children, who sanctioned the horrifying Tuskegee experiments, etc. So I get the mistrust of such professionals within the African American communities. But the professionals are not the only avenue by which wisdom can be obtained. Just examine what the underlying message of those who defend corporal punishment (as well as capitol punishment, BTW) are really saying. What such people are really saying is this---using violence against another is the way to teach that other and society ad a whole not to be violent. You yourself used of version of this logic in your above post when you stated, "A sharp smack will stop a toddler from a potentially life threatening action...much faster than any dialogue can" Really? Really? Re-read those words. Does that make any kind of real sense at the end of a truly *sane* day? My answer? No. No it certainly does not!
9 weeks ago @ Womanist Musings - Whipping & Spanking Ar... · 9 replies · +1 points
The prolific endorsement of corporal punishment as an appropriate form of punishment for parents and guardians with regard to the children in their care, within the African Descended and African American communities around the world, is nothing less than a complete cultural abomination in my view. Both Oprah Winfrey and Maya Angelou have spoken on this issue and often the take away sentiment they each conclude with is, "when we know better, we do better." Problem is, a lot of African Descended people do not seem interested in knowing better when it comes to this issue. They are content with remaining stuck in the old paradigm and come up with countless excuses and convoluted and ultimately very problematic rationale's for their stances. The arc of the universe does eventually however, bends toward justice, I do believe. And when it comes to the madness around this issue of corporal punishment---this too, at some point in the future, will pass...
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