i am asking tis for my daughter. she has bee divorced for over a year and has custody of 3 children. she wants to start dating and her ex says no. she also wants to take her children to disneyland. she lives in oregon. she is also battling kidney cancer and wants to have abd be with her kids at disneyland. i know i am just a 67 yr old grandma and see whather ex is doing. also he has guns and when the jkids visit on weekends he says he took the bullets out and gave tem the guns to play with. my daughter does not like guns but he does it for spite