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15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Would you hire illegal... · 0 replies · +1 points
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - War Vets and PTSD -- 0... · 0 replies · +1 points
The cover story about the mistakenly slaughtered women with a white flag is a very open story that I’m sure isn’t different from a lot of kept and wrapped up guilt. I can only theorize about how I would feel in that situation. When death is numbers it is hard for me to find compassion. But looking down upon a fallen fellow human is different. It is that moment of realization that their life was as complex, involved and full as yours that shakes you to the bone. Ending a life and having that same realization must be excruciating. Not only did they end lives that shouldn’t have been ended, but they get a salary (not good mind you) and they walk off planes to claps cheers, hugs and kisses. I wouldn’t be able to comprehend the misunderstanding around me nor would I be able to find the strength and energy to explain the complexity of my own guilt.
The flashbacks portrayed by media however exaggerated, I don’t believe to be too far off. I’ve had flashbacks myself, luckily nobody was shooting at me, but it was immersion to an unreal and past reality. I felt disconnected, flashbacks aren’t NORMAL, and everyone wants to feel normal right? So when you don’t feel normal the alienation starts to set in and it is easy to drift close and closer to the unreal reality. That unreal reality is enough to reek a lot of havoc on a person.
I really don’t believe enough resources and outlets are given to returned soldiers. I think there is a misconception that ‘hey they should be happy they’re home and their getting laid again!’ Hoorah! We can’t take the severity of something we have never seen lightly just because those that have don’t want to hoot and holler about the pain and difficulty of war.
It’s always hard for me to write blogs about these things in particular because never having lived anything close to warfare, I can only speculate. But I guess live is just my own perspectives speculation. I just hope there is an effort to supply soldiers with any resource they may need after returning to what may or may not be there home anymore.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - FEAR · 0 replies · +1 points
Again on the content itself, I want to make it clear that if all of these events if retold as full truth, I don’t at all blame the murderer, or victim, as I feel to be more appropriate. If in a similar situation I could never predict, but I would never rule out, this extremity. This is terrible to say, and is a horrible hypothetical situation.
Synopsis of mish mash: I think I need to reiterate that when pushing another person you should take in to consideration thresholds and evaluate the mental and physical risks of harming another being. I think I found my ideas of my own cultural constraints were multiplied. And I think that any person who responds in this manner to an atrocious life and constant setting, should not be, in any way shape or form condemned to death.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - FEAR · 0 replies · +1 points
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - FEAR · 0 replies · +1 points
From a different standpoint entirely I really want to commend this as a piece of writing. The piece is entirely un-gendered, with a few exceptions of slight gender role assumption: long hair, the father’s raping of the child, and relations ships with women.
Long hair: The speaker references being ridiculed for long hair, with which most readers would assume a male speaker.
The father’s raping: You would automatically assume the speaker was a female.
And unless you were oblivious to the frequency of abused women leading lesbian lifestyles you would assume it was a female speaker in response to the paragraph on failed relationships with women.
Yet this is obviously a man’s story which I believe is so jarring because of gender role semantics the speaker/writer chose were broken.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - LGBT families. There'... · 0 replies · +1 points
The whole situation is ridiculous. If we could just accept homosexuality whether or not their children had homosexual tendencies would be irrelevant, because duh silly it would be accepted. It gets me rather flustered, because being a homosexual and beginning to weigh the options for my future family is hard. Do I want artificial insemination? Would I carry the child? Is adoption the appropriate path? Does the race of the child matter? Do I want extra prejudice placed on my child? Should I just do what I feel is best and always be there for them as they experience some of the prejudice I inadvertently facilitated? Is this all-pointless deliberation because when I want children this country will be a more open-minded? Doubt it, but I like to write my hope.
It’s completely dehumanizing this question of whether or not gays can raise kids. Are we dogs, hamsters maybe? Honestly I think I’d rather these ignorant asses have been raised by hamsters than their own parents, because they didn’t seem to instill much of anything I view as moral. Maybe that’s just me being all gay and crazy, or maybe it really is them and they really are misinterpreting a huge demographic entirely.
And as far as suitable parents go, it’s on a personal basis. Maybe there are some shitty parents that are gay, but it isn’t because they are gay that they are shitty. Just like it isn’t an incompetent heterosexual males’ orientation that make him a horrible parent.
It blows my mind and is disappointing that Zach even have to stand up and say all of this, it just reminds me where we are in our fight to end the misinformation that this country has been plagued with since the very beginning.
One more tangent to wrap this rant, I don’t care who my parents are no matter what as long as they love me. They could be aliens and I wouldn’t care at all, the only thing is I might be more likely to talk to a green person on the sidewalk. I guess I just can’t fathom why the openness is anything less than ideal.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Is it selfish for peop... · 0 replies · +1 points
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Do you think his light... · 0 replies · +1 points
I'm sorry I just think this is a ridiculous statement, and you should try to gain a little perspective before you say bat shit crazy things.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Why do we think of peo... · 0 replies · +1 points
Here’s the problem, we are all different no matter how ignorant the arguer, they never dispute that point. But in this society (generalizing) certain differences mean more than others. Here’s the trifecta, color, location and religion. God forbid your black, from Sudan and believe in more than one god. It sends people who aren’t any of those things into a panicked frenzy. I’m being dramatic, a little.
But this is where I rant about the importance of tolerance and education and not being a total idiot. Have you ever had that awkward situation that you have no idea how to handle because the person you are encountering has one or more of the trifecta differences? It is probably feeling that way because you are embarrassed by your own lack of knowledge. Rather than take the steps to become acquainted with differences to avoid discomfort, we avoid difference entirely. Hello prejudice and discrimination.
Just the other day I was reading an article on the cut religious studies program at Penn State University, and later that night my girlfriend received an email from a previous religion professor say “I guess I’ll need to find a new calling.”
What the fuck? Am I right to be upset? How are we going to learn if the learning isn’t institutionalized? Because we obviously avoid the confrontation of ‘real time experience.’ It’s all just a crazy mess, people aren’t afraid of difference as much as their own ignorance and lack of initiative.
(I generalize terribly in all my blogs “we, people etc.” I just wanted to specify I’m generalizing on what I observe of humans.
Sometimes you can take the initiative and the other person won’t, remember you have and equal amount of difference on both ends. That can be hard to remember when egocentrism is in full swing (pretty much always).
I just want to riterate what I meant by the bolded sentence: If you look at someone and take an inventory of all of the differences between the both of you, the other person noted many or all of those same differences. Isn’t that interesting? “He is so different than me,” you could say, but on the other end that person is saying the exact same thing. (Irony)
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - How can we make people... · 0 replies · +1 points
I ate my chocolate. We have all been eating those people’s flesh for a long time. But imagine your life if every time you eat some chocolate or send a text you think about some unnamed person bleeding while they assemble or facilitate your way of life, you’d probably jump off a cliff. I don’t mean to sound theatrical about it, but imagine. Every time you did anything you directly linked it to perpetuating the misery and death of others. It would be crippling.
We would have to have that film running right in front of our eyes every single fucking day if anything was going to be done, but if we were to do that when do be get numb to the entire thing??? When would it just not evoke anything from us at all? Probably frighteningly fast.
One more thing, what does 30,000,000 look like? Can you visualize the lives of that many people? Do they matter like your family, friends lovers? Of course not. Be realistic for Christ’s sake. Don’t blow smoke. And by the way all those missing person’s posters of pretty blonde American girls, whose bodies are never recovered, they are dying in some slum somewhere of aids after they got kicked out of whorehouses. Ironically, slavery is what's colorblind.