Why can't I move? I mean I know the ball is going to hit me in the face but I still can't move. I'm thinking I should move, but I am frozen. Crap, this is going to hurt and I am going to look like an idiot.

Some great thoughts Paul. I like how Shane say's "how we disagree matters more than what we disagree about."

My friend Mark Scandrett http://www.reimagine.org/ told me once that the reason we avoid conflict and confronting people on things is that we care more about what they are going to think about us than we have love for them. This was profound to me as I, like you Paul I am not good at conflict somewhat because of the points and fears you mentioned above. I want to love others as Jesus loves and Jesus was confronting people all the time, even calling them Satan.

How do I add the repo repo666.ultrasn0w.com to Icy? I jailbroke my phone and want to use a sim card in Thailand as I am going there tomorrow. I just need it unlocked. Thanks