They are nothing BUT confused! Ask the many ex-gays who have left the lifestyle. Trust me, there are PLENTY! Being gay is nothing but a miserable state of existence, full of alcohol, drugs and partying to numb their guilt. Don't get me wrong, I'm the fist one to help them, if they ask for it. I love people and would lay down my life for anyone who is willing and in need. Ask my friend who WAS straight, and turned gay because his ex-girlfriend cheated on him, and his words, "flaming gay" brother dragged him into the LIFESTYLE. By his admission, he is "confused and lost". It's not easy getting free from that way. But it is possible.

The author also said "If America is a race, then call me a racist. Gay, straight, black, white, legal, illegal, Muslim, Christian, atheist, Libertine, or Jew" since when is being gay a race???? It's nothing but a LIFESTYLE! Ask any gay person that. I've had 5 different gay people TELL ME that they know they are wrong to live this way, and that they are doing it out of rebellion. I'm a makeup artist who works in this industry. Don't tell me that they are a race.

It wasn't your specific comment I was replying to, anybody who thinks that gays should be married, they need to understand what marriage means. If they want to call it civil union, go for it. Everyone is accoutable to their own actions. Don't go dragging God's NAME into it.

When marriage is established by YHVH God because it's a Picture of the intamacy between Him and His Chosen, also called His Beloved, let me ask you if it would be okay to borrow your parents for the weekend (still doesn't compare) and defile them the way God's Image is defiled everytime a gay person is "married". Because that's what Gay people do to God's Image everytime when He CLEARLY calls marriage a covenent between the married couple and Himself all over scripture and calls a relationship and sexual acts between two men and two women extremely disgusting!