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15 years ago @ Big Hollywood - TLC's '19 Kids and Cou... · 1 reply · 0 points
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If you raise your children correctly, without going to any extreme, they end up rejecting the silliness that society is trying to push on them. this is my problem with both the right and the left. to each, parenting is always dependent on other influences. why not you, the parent? why does it have to be media or television? since when do we have to rely on others to be moral to raise moral children! if everyone took these steps, there wouldn't be sheltered children or those who have seen too much. sorry, but i've seen everyone from all walks of life, and my life has been far from easy (no, I'm not some rich white kid from suburbia dying under new angst), but had I had an uber-atheist/liberal parent, I'd be dependent on the government and susceptible to peer pressure. Had I have an uber-christian/conservative mother, I wouldn't know the life I have now.
15 years ago @ Big Hollywood - TLC's '19 Kids and Cou... · 9 replies · -1 points
My main problem with the Republican party is the emphasis on Christianity. Frankly, we're non-practicing Orthodox Christians, and I enjoy my life that way. I don't act like a "good" person because I want to please anyone, but because that's the way I ought to behave, for a better humanity. I believe that any extremity is a dangerous one, regardless if either side sees it good. We're neither atheists, or pious Christians, but my family as a whole is filled with some of the most ethical and moral people you'd meet.
I have a problem with your argument. So, I listen to a bunch of classic rock, grunge, and indie rock. According to you, I should be promiscuous, largely atheist, and an all-around bad person. I went to public school, so I should be filled with insecurities and angst. I won't deny this; I am not angsty, but I definitely find more things in this world repulsive than I do beautiful. I watched the Disney Channel and Nickolodean as a child and I still do, and I watch Jersey Shore because it's wonderfully trashy, so I should come out as someone who hates adults, finds parents embarrassing, and definitely promotes having unsolicited sex with people I'm not in a committed relationship with. Except, newsflash! I read a new book every week, I'm maintaining a 4.0 GPA with a major in Biochemistry, I have a healthy relationship with my family and friends (which involves fighting from time to time, but that is what healthy is...not seemingly perfect!), I think I'm pretty, and boys don't give me self-worth, and I believe in the importance of choice.
Had my mom ever raised me as the Duggar parents do, I would be extremely hateful towards her. I would never be able to experience things on my own. Perhaps it's because my mother managed to gain asylum from the former USSR, where she first hand saw what a lack of choice resulted in. I, at my 19 years of age, am allowed to drink my with family and close friends and cousins. I recently came back from a trip to Europe, where my sister and I drank whenever my mom allowed us at a festive wedding. I have never had the urge to binge drink at parties, or smoke weed, do ecstasy at stupid raves, or snort cocaine.
I'm the result of just good parenting; my mom raised me with morals, but didn't shield me from the outside world. In this long winded response, here is my point: if you raise your children well, the pressures from the "outside/real" world don't matter. keeping them from the dangers outside is silly and foolish.
go ahead, give me a thumbs down. there's a difference between me, the duggar kids, and weirdo american kids who are whiny, obnoxious and destined to fail in the real world...i understand moderation (and the chance of wearing pants, though I'm a girl.)
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