"Okay I have a question; if you are HAVING INTERCOURSE WITH A WOMAN...."
If you're with someone, it's not masturbation.
But thank you for giving me my morning laughs!
I'm not going to represent the whole female population, but I like to be with someone who's strong and who won't let me have my way all the time and I suppose 'nice guys' or the nice guys as described above, have that 'whatever you like' quality to them; I agree with Educated Black Man in that some can be push overs. But also, I think some ladies like 'the chase' when it comes to looking for men. If something is readily available to you, it doesn't carry the same appeal as something you need work for.
I suppose I was just thinking of "who undresses themselves to have sex but leaves their socks on?"
Socks alone are kind of suspect; let alone dirty ones.
Okay, your argument is true to an extent. I admit, I wear make up, like I said, as a "quasi smoke screen", but I know that I'm simply aiming for improvement and not perfection. It's an absolutely shit way to live, I know, but I can admit to it. It's not just simply 'stop it', I mean in ABSOLUTE HONESTY, I just don't think I'm attractive enough to walk out the house without it; simple as that. And wouldn't you do everything you can to improve an unfortunate situation?
You know, I actually feel worse when I wear make up (which is practically everyday). It's just a constant reminder that I'm pretty much someone I don't want to be/I'm not. In all honesty, people say you wear cosmetics to 'enhance' what you already have; no. I, personally, wear it as a quasi smoke screen and that's so fucking tragic aye? You're reference to God and the fact that he made everything beautiful, was to his standard. In my opinion, a standard of beauty so complex, humans can't comprehend it (for example: we're beautiful in that *let me think of something simple to us, yet elaborate in actual process*, our hair can be used to detect drugs... I think that's pretty amazing ;-) ) so we make a bogus aesthetic standard that so happened to take us (I admit it) girls with it. I would never, EVER think I was better than someone else end of story. I just think it's so fucking rude! No one is beneath you, and in turn, no one is above you.
In all honesty, like Denyse, I like advice, but I'm not waiting for a whole community fucking consensus for a guideline for who I should or shouldn't be with judged solely on aesthetics. I think 'attraction' or what we find 'attractive' is unique to each individual. With that being said, perhaps it stems from self confidence??? Just throwing this out there, maybe, a more confident person would be more likely to be with someone the majority of people find 'unattractive' than someone who has little self confidence. I mean, I may be over simplifying the situation, but seeking approval from people really originates from not being sure/confident with your own decisions. I don't know, ignore me...
I'm not usually a person to comment, however, I don't think it's anyone's place to judge The Undresser. The blog wasn't called makinglifelongcommitmentstoHER... I suppose what I'm trying to say is take it for what it is and if you don't like it don't read it.
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