And you are right. It boils down to men being men. That is just the way they are. It's not the same as us women, and that's the way I like it too. If I wanted to date someone with female tendencies and personalities, I would date a woman. I want to date someone with a dick as well. I love it too.
I totally agree with the men looking at other women. I look at guys (and girls) so why can't he? And I also agree with your answer on #6. What's too much? At least once a day is good with me. For #1, if you want to vent, call up a girlfriend. That's what they are there for. Open some wine get to chatting. Leave your man out of it. IF you want an answer or solution, talk to your man. I disagree with the fighting and protective answers though. A couple of guys that I dated were intensely protective and it was annoying. I have been single for 10 years and can kill spiders and grab the bat just as well as they can. I prefer my man to grab the bat, but don't worry about the spiders. I got that shit covered. As for the fighting. I get that some guys just fight, but leave me out of it. I don't think that the overly aggressive guys are attractive. Now if he's protecting me? Go for it, just don't make it a sport.