Well, I will admit that I thought I could easily get emotional with sex. However, I have found a new awakening in me. I have a couple of fuck buddies/booty callers that I reach out to. The trick is to find someone who you would never in a million years see a future with. Someone who you know you could NOT spend the rest of your life with. This is just something that is satisfying a need, or innermost desire. I have found that I can act out my fantasies easier (and dirty feeling-free) with my booty callers than with someone I really like. I feel as though I can speak more openly about my sexual desires with them than I can with anyone that I have an emotional attachment to because of the "what will they think of me if I tell them what I REALLY want them to do to me" syndrome. I guess it is kind of something that is just tiding me over until I find "the one." After all, girls need ta get some too! Casual sex can be a lot of fun, you just have to go in to it (pardon the pun) leaving emotion at the front door and not in the bedroom. It is something where you have to know what you want out of it ahead of time, otherwise the emotion will creep up on you.

i actually do passion parties, and i make sure that i am presentable. i try not to make it too uncomfortable, but you have to do SOMETHING to break the ice. sometimes the humiliating games are a great way to get people talking about things they would never outwardly admit or talk about without some of these ice breakers. hey, anyone out there in Houston looking to host a party, hit me up!

I have used CL to find sex and I have had WONDERFUL results. Haven't ever played Monopoly and never would (certainly not as foreplay). Now I have a few gents to tickle my fancy if the mood ever strikes. I definitely reccomend!