Carlos Velez
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14 years ago @ Conscious Me - Oh Baby, I Was Bound F... · 1 reply · +1 points
I am LoA saying you would have been very comfortable and it would have been awesome, because dammit, I'm a great photographer too! I will be putting together some practice photo sessions (just like what Julie did with you) soon so I can practice composing shots while paying attention to things like the background, the expression on the subject's face, how the light hits them, the aperture setting on my camera all while trying to talk the subject through feeling relaxed and having fun and posing in interesting ways. Whoo! That's a lot. I talked to my first victim yesterday, we just need to work out a date and such.
Next time we're in town I would be down for it, if circumstances allow. Most definitely we must hang out...Prohibition Room is likely. That place is cool and has really good beer.
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14 years ago @ Conscious Me - The Law Of Attraction,... · 2 replies · +1 points
Carlos, the way you discuss LoA resonates with me in a way I can't describe...except to say that it feels familiar. It's almost as though these are things I have subconsciously believed for a long time (all my life?) but have never put into words, either mentally or verbally. So you're doing the work for me, finding the right words to express it all!
I just might share some specifics on house-buying. I intend to be able to buy a house next spring (perhaps in the OKC area) so I should start doing some LoA practices towards that now/soon. In truth, I am doing some stuff towards that goal in working on my e-book and the challenges. I am overcoming a lot of inner conflict and struggle to accomplish those things, and though I haven't been easily confident in myself I can accomplish everything with the time I have, I have been confident that doing so will ultimately bring me a lot of success/wealth. That is to say that with every chapter I write in the book, every new person interested, each task completed on building the site, etc. I am feeling a bit more confident of buying a house next Spring.
hmm...I'm not sure why it wouldn't be working. I'll notify IntenseDebate and see if they have any suggestions.
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14 years ago @ Conscious Me - Sunday Short: The Sale... · 0 replies · +1 points
I think the thing that is off-putting about MLM's for a lot of people is that some people who work at one have difficulty separating work from home. They're always talking about their damn protein shake and you feel like you've lost the person you knew to a pyramid scheme. It's not really any different with blogging or anything else in life though. It can consume your mind if you don't establish clear boundaries, and make you a less real person, which ultimately can hurt your salesmanship. Maybe your numbers won't drop, but the quality of your connection to your customer does. I think that means you're working harder to find new customers, rather than benefiting from repeat loyal customers.
That's something I'm struggling with right now with blogging. Drawing up boundaries. I am at a point where to be successful I have to haul ass and get a lot of work done in a short amount of time, and that means sacrificing some personal time and time with friends and family, but there has to be a line somewhere, and it can't go on forever.
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14 years ago @ Conscious Me - Direction, Not Perfect... · 0 replies · +1 points
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14 years ago @ Conscious Me - Direction, Not Perfect... · 0 replies · +1 points
I haven't figured out how to deal with it except with deep breaths and reinforcing to myself that I'm doing the right thing and that it's not my responsibility to get their approval, only to get mine. And to pray, and to set boundaries when they cross any lines. That last one is the toughest part, especially with family.
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14 years ago @ Conscious Me - Sunday Short: The Sale... · 0 replies · +1 points
Congrats on getting over those fears. You're doing quite admirably with your work and your approach. Yours is a very adaptive and growth-oriented charity, because you're exactly that kind of person. Kudos.
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14 years ago @ Conscious Me - Sunday Short: The Sale... · 2 replies · +1 points
the struggle for the salesman is to stop pitching and start listening when the customer is just dragging it on. We can say all we want, but if we're not saying the right thing, then we're spinning our wheels. That's another time that asking open ended questions is vital. Something like "What would make this the perfect purchase for you?" can get a customer to start communicating to you exactly what you need to do to close the sale.
What are you trying to sell jianchung?
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14 years ago @ Conscious Me - Sunday Short: The Sale... · 0 replies · +1 points
It can be a struggle not to project our own views and issues with money onto our customers.
Valentina, I'd be really interested to know how you approach "asking for the sale" in an online environment.
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14 years ago @ Conscious Me - Sunday Short: The Sale... · 0 replies · +1 points
I suggested pulling the fence line back which took 24 linear feet of fence off of my sale, lowering my own commission, but it turned out that the customer agreed it was for the best.
It is very important to remember that the customer has some kind of vested interest in your business or you would have no contact. It's easy at my job because they've gone as far as to pay $35 already, but it can be harder to keep that in mind when you're just talking about pageviews on your blog, or the casual "I'm just looking" customer that drifts in to your store. True, they may not be as vested as others, but something brought them in and it's our duty to find out, or even help them realize why they made that contact with us.
Did you follow that link at the end to heartofbusiness.com? If you haven't read that blog, you really should. I am confident you'll be really impressed by their content.
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14 years ago @ Conscious Me - Direction, Not Perfect... · 0 replies · +1 points
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