Diane, Again I say thanks along with the others who have responded to your web site. I was married one time to a reserve police/sheiff. Not only was he mentally abusive to me, but abusive both physically and mentally to my 2 children. There was no sense in calling the "authorities" to help, as to them it was a laughing matter. Ha, Ha...very funny. That is just the way of the world. I know my children literally hate him now and I am glad that he left me for another. Good riddence!!!!!!!!!!, and do not let the door hit you on the way OUT.