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12 years ago @ Single Black Male - Girlfriend Zero: The O... · 0 replies · +1 points

NStan,
Thank you for your kind words, but I'm done. I just went through too much with the last woman and it has made me realized that I have other things to do with my life other mess with these women who have no respect for us. They love the thugs. They love being cheated on and beaten on. It's been my experience to just stay out and have fun doing me... Trust me... I'm letting God do his thing... This is why I have found happiness in just hanging with my daughter on the weekends and working on my goal to complete my degree by 2014... It's all good.. Let the young bucks have this window... I love being in my 50's and seeing life from this perspective...

13 years ago @ Single Black Male - Earth to Chris Brown &... · 0 replies · +1 points

I am sensing another Tupac and Biggie in the makings here... These two just don't get it... I'm praying for them...

13 years ago @ Single Black Male - How One Man Became Jad... · 0 replies · +1 points

Bravo Tunde...
I applaud you... Stay true to yourself... I guess maybe one day I will come out of my jadedness when GOD see fit to place a woman in from me that I can truly say makes me happy to my likings... Until then I will enjoy my life hanging out with and raising my daughter... Although I am now over the woman that truly broke my heart, I am just as happy spending a great deal of me time with myself...

After a failed marriage and then a truly loving relationship that went south due to circumstances beyond my control, I have learned to look within and not from the outside... I am almost finish with my book on "Black men and our heartaches Pain" which is truly a rewarding piece of work that I can say really gave me some insight on all of my relationships and of those I have interviewed for my book...

Your story gave me even more inspiration... Thanks for sharing...

I am truly happy for you my brother... Stay up...

13 years ago @ Single Black Male - How One Man Became Jad... · 0 replies · +4 points

The slap would have done it for me too... Once it gets physical, it's time to move on... As my father always told me, "if you have to beat her, you don't need her..." It goes both ways... Tunde your jadedness is different from mine, but I seriously understand how you feel ace...

13 years ago @ Single Black Male - The State of Black Mar... · 0 replies · +10 points

We are the blame for our current state of affairs... Our generation is the throw away generation... the first sign of trouble we throw it all away... Everyone is so concerned about being messed up financially and not look at how together you can build an empire together... We are not our parents Generation that's for sure...

13 years ago @ Single Black Male - How One Man Became Jad... · 0 replies · +1 points

In the words of Spike Lee from the movie, "Jungle Fever" NEUTRON BOMB!!! I feel a serious crash and burn coming here...

13 years ago @ Single Black Male - How One Man Became Jad... · 1 reply · +3 points

Hey Bree,
I'm not as bad as your friend, but I am concentrating on finishing raising my daughter... I just decided to work on me... I'm back in school working on my degree... I'm writing a book on black men and the broken heart... Interesting interviews to say the least... I'm jaded now, but who knows what the future brings... I would never say that GOD couldn't do his thing on me... Who can deny the almighty... I feel for anyone who gets their heart broken... It's not a pleasant situation to be in... It hurts like hell as Aretha Franklin sang on the movie soundtrack "Waiting Exhale" I hope your friend well...

13 years ago @ Single Black Male - How One Man Became Jad... · 4 replies · +6 points

First and foremost let me offer my condolences to your heart. Second, I feel your pain. I kind of figure that this woman Stacey wasn't worth your time anyway... She is the reason why good brothers become jaded... I had a Stacey too.. She torn my heart to pieces... The main reason I am out of the game today... I don't have any advice for you... My jadedness has me still angry and bitter... Maybe one day, I'll try again, but as of this moment, GOD hasn't created a woman for me to love... She doesn't exist... I'm sorry for anyone who gets their heart broken, both men and women... it's a bitter pill to swallow... Stay up my brother...

13 years ago @ Single Black Male - How One Man Became Jad... · 1 reply · +2 points

Bravo, I believe I know how this is going to end being that I am completely jaded... I pray I'm wrong, I need a new way to see love and all it has to offer...

13 years ago @ Single Black Male - In Search of Amber Ros... · 0 replies · 0 points

I'm sorry, you can keep Amber Rose, give me Rosie Perez....

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