A superb exposition.

Great essay! Hits the nail on the head.

If you are a Christian and you want to get married, how do you find a willing, compatible, and Godly partner? What changes need to be made to our culture to make this easier and more successful? Give me your answers.

For instance, we now live in a very informal society. In the past, life was more formal and the great advantage of this was that everyone knew what was expected of them and what they had to do in any particular social situation. Today when you meet someone the rules have to be made up on the fly. And with each new person you meet you have to start again. This leads to great uncertainty, confusion, misunderstanding and hurt. Do we therefore then, need to re-formalise our society?