Thank you for reading and leaving a comment @Nfinite5 I appreciate the feedback and you taking time to read the article. Me and my best friend also argue more than we agree sometimes and we discussed this very same article because after telling him I wrote it of course he wanted to put his two cents in like he does with everything I know that people have different experiences and all of that comes into play when you decide to start a relationship with someone I think that a lot of black couples drag their unresolved baggage with them into a relationship which makes it difficult to just bring yourself to the relationship and not all your issues. You can't have a relationship with someone if you already have trust issues, if you have abuse issues, if you have intimacy issues all of that makes for a volatile type of environment that doesn't foster love you are already setting yourself up for failure from the jump. I also thing if you have had a lot of relationship it can ruin you because that's how you get all the baggage in the first place. Not everyone is healthy enough to be invited into your life especially relationship wise but a lot of people don't see that before they jump into something that ruins them potentially. It's good to choose wisely and guard your heart until you know that the person you are dating is worthy enough to be in your life.

I feel like the show is an awesome show and the landscape of America has changed so showing a black woman with a white man especially one she has worked with for years is realistic. Plus her first husband was white so we know that her character already leans that way so it is what it is. Every show's black character is now dating white there are no more black shows on prime time tv, black women are being slandered daily in the news and in every way shape or form and told that we are less attractive in the eyes of others and no one wants us not even our own men so.... it is what it is, I enjoy the show personally so rock on Jada you got one with this show.

OMG yes Clara you are so right on the money with that, the way he disrespected his mother and the way he tried to pacify paula patton's character was just not hot. I personally thought all the characters were underdeveloped and trivial and basic I know in a movie they can't give you a lot of depth but those characters could have been so much better IMO and the whole premise of the movie was just flawed and laughable. Thank you for giving your opinion though I hope you come back and read often.

So let me get this straight this women who was a housekeeper/ personal secretary was victimized and she went on to work there for 20 years so that she could get her retirement, had a son by her employer said it was her then husbands, all while still going to work everyday but she is a victim? The last time I checked victims didn't stay with their abusers until they could retire. The last time I checked a woman who knowingly claims its her husbands child all the while knowing its not is clearly not playing victim. Her ex-husband knew what was going down because he knew the child wasn't his and you mean to tell me all between her and her now ex-husband he didn't come to her aid or try and help her out? Where is the oppression and the victimization that you speak of?

Which one you referring to paula patton or the lady that was catering the whole affair? The lady that was the event coordinator was there for comic relief I don't even think they bothered to even name her character and she was way to comfortable with the people she was supposed to be working for and she wasn't that professional and at the end she got with deray's character on the dance floor, it was obvious she got a brotha fetish lol. 

All I want to know is, is he going to marry his longtime girlfriend?
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Awesome its enjoyable get you some popcorn and cross your ankles relax and enjoy.

How you find that out? Girl smh I'm not surprised about nothing those chicks do smh all this time grinning in her face she don't feel no shame about herself at all, Evelyn clearly been in it to win it since she got knocked up at a young age she probably was around a lot of ball players until she latched onto one, then he didn't pan out now she with Chad Johnson smh girl She should do a playboy spread already cause clearly she proud of her body so she should go ahead and let Hugh put her in the magazine and keep it pushing.

But what is her IT factor I mean kim stay whoring herself out and making money I'm not mad at her hustle by any means but I don't think she is an icon though, but people are now using her as a standard of beauty and as something that men want so what beside a whole lot of hype about nothing is her IT factor? This amber rose chick is just she's not even hot to me but what do I know I don't have a penis.

Well thank you sir but you don't care to enlighten me on Kim and Amber's IT factor?