I read the book about 2 years ago, and I loved it! I never really understood how important respect was to men. It helped me with my husband but also with all the men I worked with... I discovered that I have be aware of respect at all times. The illustration that really stuck with me in the book was how a majority of men would choose having no one to love them vs. having no respect. I didn't know they did conferences. We'll have to keep our eyes open for one in our area.