Christine, Thank you for the kind words. I guess cheating is never a simple thing for any relationship. I hope you are well!

Cleavie, interesting question! However, they would have to go for even asking.

Amanda, I would have to say you are right. If I could write a book I would have covered much of what you are saying. However, my main point is that if a female is being miss treated, they have to take responsibility for their very own happiness. Meaning good decision making from the beginning of the relationship. A man that becomes abusive most likely showed signs of it early in the relationship by how he treated others. Both men and women should stop rushing into serious relationships.

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Liane, trust me! It will get much better. I'm glad you like it! Thanks for commenting.

Simplicity? I guess that would be assuming that my life is so easy. I'm here to tell you that it's not. I sometimes want to scream at the wealthy but to me that would just be jealously rearing it's ugly head. We are taught to be successful and make as money as we can to be comfortable and do what we want in life. So what I'm saying is taking personal responsibility and take care of yourself. Make yours within legal means but just do it .

Cleavie, the problem isn't the kicker. I wrote about this a while ago. if they were the program that the BCS claims them to be, both last years game and this weeks game wouldn't of come down to a field goal in the first place. Both times against questionable programs.
It's time to kick Boise out of the top 25 for good. The BCS, coaches, you and the fans have to get real about the rating system. It's a joke!

Jill, thank you. That comment from "classy" guy above was ridiculous so thanks for the support. It means so much more when people like you step up when someone attacks you and your family or more specifically, Kerry.

Hey B, if you have something to say to me or my wife pick up the phone and call like a man or send an email (LOL). What is it with you always assuming something to be negative. Too much yoga, man. Try something new. Just my advice. Oh, that's right I'm too opinionated. Sorry if you see it that way. Funny thing is all those political writers such as Michael Savage that you seem to like so much have very strong opinions but I can't, huh. There was a time when you appreciated my differing opinion and view point. Nothing has changed here. What happened to you? Try thinking for yourself some day, it can be very powerful as well.

I've written about this too and Kerry touched on it above as well. People that are around are the ones that hate the most. We are happy and love our life and see nothing wrong with sharing. If you want to share what you know and have learned, start your own website.

Get over that damn email too, for God's sake. Classy tip: If the skirt is short, the boobs stay in. If the boobs are out, the skirt should be longer.

Cleavie, I thought we have been over this before. Yes some people cheat because of curiosity and ego. However, there are many people that hold a strong enough value system to know it's just that. Curiosity!

Think about how many young women some who are married sit in front of a TV watching trash and begin to look up to those characters. Then begin to think what they have at home isn't good enough. Then you have all the ego driven insecure men who need an extramarital affair to feel like a man. Men are more insecure than women. Trust me! That's why they tend to cheat more often. You have to think deep to understand this type of behavior my brotha. Leave that trash TV alone man and stick to watching sports. I know you watch it because I can tell by some of your articles. Anyway, love you man and thanks for commenting.

Melody, in the past I mentioned how bad I thought that whole Housewives show is. Many women are influenced by trash TV like that. Not to blame the media for infidelity in any way after all we are all adults and make our own decisions. I just happen to believe they have influenced a large part of our culture. Many people aspire to be like the Kim Kardashians of the world. Unfortunately, most people don't get paid millions to get married.

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