Hi Ken, One of the side benefits of using The Lefkoe Method is that we understand that our parents do what they do because of their beliefs, which leads most of us to having compassion for our parents and forgiving them for their behavior (it was the best they could do given their beliefs). Regards, Morty
Hi Mussa, In the first place, if someone doesn't talk to you that doesn't necessarily men you were purposefully ignored. That is already an interpretation. Secondly, even if you were purposefully ignored, that behavior could have many different interpretations, such as: he doesn't like you, he was upset and didn't want to talk to anyone at that moment, he thought you didn't like him and didn't want to be yelled at. Being ignored doesn't not inherently mean someone wanted to offend you, even though that might be the meaning a lot of people would give that behavior.
The "creation" called Steve has a lot of resistance, the creator of that creation has no resistance. In other words, the resistance is nothing more than beliefs. Get rid of the limiting beliefs and the resistance will disappear. And .... it's OK to be scared.
I'm not sure at what age we first form beliefs, but you can see significant differences in children's personalities and behavior at the age of two, so I suspect we have formed beleifs before that time. I suspect we give meaning to events even before language, in some emotional form. Then when we get language we put words on our feelings.
Hi Jo, I'm thrilled you found our program life changing. That was our intention. We don't yet have an on-line program dealing with money beliefs, but we'd be happy to work with you in one-on-one sessions where we can help you find your specific limiting money beliefs, and then get rid of them. The price is $200 per hour. Call us at 415-456-7300 to make an appointment or to get any specific questions answered. Regards, Morty
Hi Ralf, I know about Sedona but not enough to know how it is similar and different. It seems like it does something different, but I'm not really sure. Regarding your comment, getting rid of one belief might produce a "euphoric daze for about an hour." Getting rid of a bunch of beliefs and conditionings will produce a permanent change in behavior and feelings. Regards, Morty
I actually do want to use the word "meaning.'' Events in the world have no inherent meaning, as I explain in the process itself. The emotion you feel following an event is a function of the meaning you have given the event. Change the meaning and the emotion changes.
You can eliminate beliefs even if you care what people think of you. Except some of your feelings might not change. My comment on someone else's blog post might be helpful to you:
The belief goes away in almost every case when you go through the entire process. The way to know the belief is gone is if the words have no emotion attached when you say them out loud after the process, if they sound sort of flat. Checking your feelings is not a way to see if the belief is gone. Because you might have other beliefs worth eliminating, such as I'm not capable, Nothing I do is good enough, etc., you still might not feel good about yourself. When those other beliefs are eliminated too, your sense of yourself, your feelings about yourself, will change drastically. All that always happens when a single belief is eliminated is that it is gone. And the way to check that is to only see if the words of the belief feel true.
You probably have a belief like, What makes me good enough or important is having people think well of me. That belief causes one to be concerned about what others think. That is one of the beliefs you will eliminate on the Natural Confidence course. Having that belief will affect your feelings; it will not keep other beliefs from being eliminated.
I'm not sure what you mean. The belief goes away in almost every case when you go through the entire process. The way to know the belief is gone is if the words have no emotion attached when you say them out loud after the process, if they sound sort of flat. Checking your feelings is not a way to see if the belief is gone. Because you might have other beliefs worth eliminating, such as I'm not capable, Nothing I do is good enough, etc., you still might not feel good about yourself. When those other beliefs are eliminated too, your sense of yourself, your feelings about yourself, will change drastically. All that always happens when a single belief is eliminated is that it is gone. And the way to check that is to only see if the words of the belief feel true.
Sorry that you found it too wordy. This may not be the best way for you. And I have a question: Have any of the other courses, workshops, sessions, etc. ever guaranteed that you could eliminate a limiting belief permanently after a wordy 30 minute video? We have helped people who came to us after 20 years of personal growth work and therapy of various types and then told us after a few sessions that nothing they had done in 20 years had made such a profound difference in their lives. And I'm sorry it doesn't work for you.
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