Haha- I can so relate to this. However with Es last trip and our first plane ride (driving just provides WAY to much room) I managed to pack for both of us in a back pack and 1 overhead bin approved roller board- and then once I got there I went to Walmart and bought all the stuff I thought I didn't need...HA!

Oh girl- do I understand! I think our flow is now "what illness does E have now and what type of treatment does it require?"

I totally understand where your coming from- and if I had an answer for myself I'd likely have one for you. I don't think there is a "perfect" time- I think you'll either A) know and make your decision on bringing another baby home or B) God will tell you you're ready (often He does this unexpectedly by bringing a child to you via pregnancy or other avenues).

Either way- the right soul for your family will find you :).