hi a very very well written post. i can really relate to what ever you are saying. For me it depends if it is something ordinary, then I can just F*uck it and forget it. For most things it is forgive n not forget and for somethings painful, cant forgive and hence never forget. It will remain in me for a long time and even if i try to shelve it, somewhere in the corner of my mind.

But i would say, ultimately the best n healthy is forgive. IF you can forgive, then u can also forget. For me , however it is so far not possible.

A very meaningful post, one that most of us would relate to.

Hahahaha..very fumnny