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10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: Wome... · 2 replies · 0 points

Actually he's lost my favor cuz he's been a bit of an asshole. He's said incredibly insulting, ableist things about autistics and he's complained about how hard it is to be rich. The latter I could deal with on its own, but the first is absolutely intolerable to me. I'm autistic and I refuse to support someone who talks in such a dehumanizing way about me. So, sadly, he's not as good of a person as he seems initially.

10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: Wome... · 0 replies · +2 points

Wow, way to oversimplify and stereotype all women as though we're a computer program or something.

10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: Wome... · 0 replies · +4 points

Yeah, I read that and immediately thought, "so you mean he attracted women for basically the exact same thing that attracted men to him? That he was a really good person who was fun to be around? Wow, women want to be around nice people! What a fuckin shocker!" Like it was phrased as though only men would be interested in a dude who's fun to be around. WTF.

10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: Wome... · 0 replies · +3 points

Yes! Either that or they noticed he was a douche when she didn't. Or it's a women-only outing for themselves and they've established ahead of time not to look for men to date or something.

Single, straight women aren't always looking for a man; something I think everybody tends to forget easily. (Since we're basically taught the opposite.)

10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: Wome... · 0 replies · +3 points

Stereotyping women as essentially inherently cruel harpies. Good job.

10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: Wome... · 0 replies · +3 points

You're also a huge cynic, which, frankly, is boring and asinine. And largely unsubstantiated. Just because you see the world that way doesn't mean everyone else does.

11 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Wednesday Open Thread:... · 0 replies · +7 points

Honestly? When I asked him why he was with me, I asked something like, "But what do I do for you? I know you help me relax, you stabilize me, you calm me down, you help me with everything. But what do I do for you?" And he just replied something like, "I love you and I love being with you." Like he didn't let me make it about an exchange of favors, as relationships are sometimes viewed. I worry that I'll be a burden to him, but he reminds me that he loves me and wants to support me and that's okay.

11 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How To Introduce Kink ... · 1 reply · +3 points

Yeah, Dan Savage has has some problems with the whole GGG thing before. http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2011/03/good-givin... I'm not a fan.

And don't forget Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK).

I'm not sure why we need the acronyms, though? Like consent is important. That's kinda the point of not rape. @_@ To me, giving that several acronyms feels weird, but maybe that's because I stray away from edgeplay.

11 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How To Introduce Kink ... · 0 replies · +2 points

To be honest, the starter kits are usually crap, from what I've looked at. ESPECIALLY the ones themed around the 50 Shades book.

11 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How To Introduce Kink ... · 3 replies · +1 points

A lot of people use it in an insulting way, implying that it's "boring", etc.

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