Thank you so much for writing this! It was just what I needed to hear. The more time I spend as a single adult the more I become accustomed to my independence which makes the future husband need to be all that more “perfect”. I know this is not right and it also breeds fear in me at the thought of surrendering my life to be one with another. I appreciated how you acknowledged the same fear and also how you stepped out in faith. This is a wonderful reminder to me.