Okay. I notice a lot of guys want a cut and dried answer for everything. Call or text? Black or white? But the truth is, it depends. Every girl is different. Every situation is different. Some girls prefer calling while others are fine with texting. For me, it depends on the guy. And the relationship. And my mood, maybe.

There are some guys who will ONLY text. That annoys me. Then there are guys who call too much. That's annoying, too. But truth be told, the men who worry about calling vs. texting are likely not calling too much, because they are too worried about it. And what does "too much" mean, anyway? Well, that depends on the girl, too. And the relationship stage. And how she feels about the guy. A friend of mine will text with a new guy she meets all day long, every day, and she loves it. That would drive me bonkers.

Unfortunately, there's no right answer. Sorry. Sometimes you just have to feel it out. To be safe, I think a balance is good. Text sometimes, call sometimes. And, personally, I'm with Melissa. If you're asking me out, call me.

My gay bf suggests this as well - go out with everyone who asks you, because you never know. I don't actually go out with EVERYONE, but I do go out with people who I feel kinda lukewarm about, just to give them a chance.

Hey - thanks for the shout out! At least your date was the same person in the pic... technically speaking.

I am impressed you had the balls to call her out. I wish I had. People like that need to be told. Alas, I wussed out.

Love it! I would love a guy like that. Super awesome.

Thanks for the shout out, bitch! ;) xoxx

Thank you for the shout out! xx

This is an ongoing debate but I have to agree with Dumps. Few people like insecurity, male or female. But I think it's possible to be confident, decisive and take action and still be nice. I'm afraid when men hear something like "women don't want a nice guy," they automatically think they need to be a complete douchebag. Right now I am dating a nice guy and I am loving it. He treats me like a princess and I dig it. I'm freaking tired of assholes. Some women DO like nice guys!