Sara Cantor

Sara Cantor

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9 years ago @ The Toast - Inexplicably Insulting... · 0 replies · +7 points

9 years ago @ The Toast - Chasing "Normal": My S... · 0 replies · +17 points

also, Kayla, we had the exact same disabled kid style! Here I am on the right:

9 years ago @ The Toast - Chasing "Normal": My S... · 0 replies · +34 points

also, just wanted to add that I feel you SO HARD about the importance of getting to say no to an activity that doesn't work for you. There are a lot of things that I simply cannot do, and that's okay. When folks keep pressing me to find a way to make it work, that's a terrific red flag that these are not people I can trust.

9 years ago @ The Toast - Chasing "Normal": My S... · 4 replies · +26 points

This is such a great and important piece. Thank you so much for writing it and sharing with us!

I would love to let folks know about a camp that I had a super different experience with - I might write something about it in the future, but in the meantime, if you're looking for a camp that is run by a mixture of able-bodied and disabled folks, this is the one! It still has a lot of the gross rhetoric about "being your best self" or w/e, but most of the counselors are disabled, too, and the able-bodied people are just there to lift things in the background. It was really important to me growing up! Here's the link: http://www.adaptivesportsandrec.org/camp

9 years ago @ The Toast - Dogs I Would Like To O... · 1 reply · +44 points

You already own the small fur-clown! It is Murphy!

9 years ago @ The Toast - "Femme On Femme" Is Th... · 0 replies · +22 points

more information for anyone who's interested:

bandcamp (featuring the fisting song!!): https://gaymous.bandcamp.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gaymousband

also, the lead singer (PizzaCupcake) uses "they", and the long-haired butch (FXBoi) uses "she"! just so everyone can FREAK OUT about them respectfully :)

9 years ago @ The Toast - My Only Carriage: On N... · 0 replies · +1 points

This is incredible. Thank you!!

9 years ago @ The Toast - Telling Stories: Secre... · 0 replies · +7 points

<3 <3 <3

9 years ago @ The Toast - Memorable Passages Fro... · 0 replies · +6 points

no more cisco and jim no more cisco and jim no more cisco and jim

10 years ago @ The Toast - Here Is A Recipe For T... · 1 reply · +5 points

She wants you to believe that but it is a LIE