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sayevet

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9 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 0 replies · +37 points

Max Mad: Firey Road

9 years ago @ The Toast - All the Reasons Why Pe... · 0 replies · +11 points

Keep in mind that each individual is only aware of the context of their own invitation, not that only two people have responded. I would text or email (individually) with "I'm confirming numbers so I can plan food and drinks! Are you able to attend?" for a personal follow-up...

9 years ago @ The Toast - All the Reasons Why Pe... · 3 replies · +16 points

Ugh, sorry people are being weird about it! I would alternate between "Yes, we're going to celebrate privately" and "That's an odd thing to say." If they're confused by your preference, be confused right back at their persistence.

9 years ago @ The Toast - Aunt Acid: When Friend... · 1 reply · +50 points

I've been reading "Non-Violent Communication" and I'm intrigued by the concept of asking your conversational partner what they heard you say. On the rare occasion that information has been volunteered to me, I've been shocked by the difference between my intention and their interpretation. Could be a good exercise for LW2 to get some feedback for further reflection...

9 years ago @ The Toast - Aunt Acid: When Friend... · 1 reply · +27 points

I'm recharged by conversations that have a brainstorming quality of sharing thoughts rather than a spirited debate or argument. Some people can't seem to tell the difference, but it's very obvious to me!

9 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 0 replies · +4 points

Yes! The courage it takes to say something this direct also makes any rejection easier to bear :)

9 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 0 replies · +2 points

<3 <3 <3

9 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 0 replies · +9 points

LIVING THE DREAM

9 years ago @ The Toast - The Best Part Of J... · 0 replies · +29 points

English Canadian Dirtbags unite! Grade 10 like, "It's okay, I got this." Cut to a day in Paris 10 years later... "Non, I have not got this." le facepalm

9 years ago @ The Toast - The Best Part Of J... · 0 replies · +31 points

I'M HUNGRY, YO!