Lori,
Thanks so much for sharing this! What an inspiration! :)

I like this post! I used to try to treat my husband as I wanted to be treated, giving love and lots of words. What I didn't understand was that his needs were so different from mine! He needed respect and my cooperation with his leadership, not long, loving letters every day.

Now I understand the golden rule differently. I seek to meet my husband's needs as I would want him to meet my needs. It is the golden rule, but allows for understanding that we as men and women are VERY different and we are unique as individuals, too. Thanks for the great post!