Men need sex like they need air. I've written a Christian post called, "Why Sex," (http://www.oysterbed7.com/2012/04/why-sex.html) that illuminates the male biology of sex and psychology of bonding through sex from a Christian perspective. It made me much more empathetic to the male plight of sexual need. Ephesians 5:21 is our marriage and life verse. Because my husband is such a wonderful, loving, compassionate man, I wish to please him. Because he seeks ways to connect and lead in a loving way, I wish to please him. That's what the true leader is.....a servant, not demanding.