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littleowls

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10 years ago @ The Toast - Movie Yelling: Things ... · 0 replies · +11 points

And if you finish and enjoy that, you'll be pleased to discover that at least 80% of Marilynne Robinson's other essays are also about the greatness of the legacy of Calvinism in America (not a complaint, somehow!).

11 years ago @ The Toast - Tips for Getting the M... · 0 replies · +10 points

Oh god, the Retriever Lean is THE BEST. When I was growing up one of our dogs was an obese, dopey, loving golden-retriever/black-lab mix and she had that technique down pat; it makes me so so happy when I encounter another of her make out in the world.

11 years ago @ The Toast - Meet Your Neighbor: Th... · 0 replies · +12 points

I love this I love them I want one (I knoooow I can't, they are eerie-noisy, messy bastards even when you're camping anyhow, but I heard about an old lady who had one as a pet and it used to jump down from the second-floor staircase in her home and scare guests, and I don't *not* want to be that old lady)

11 years ago @ The Toast - How My Rocky Horro... · 0 replies · +8 points

Hee! I, on the other hand, was a Magenta who would've rather been Columbia (but another of our group too obviously had the right look and vibe, and "big-haired ice queen" was well within my wheelhouse). One year I just went as the Lips from the opening (black slutty clothes, red lipstick), though. RHPS is a good and oddly underused typology of human beings.

11 years ago @ The Toast - Let's Talk About The B... · 0 replies · +7 points

I will say that there *are* a lot of bad, older translations of FD out there, and Pevear and Volokhonsky's modern ones are excellent. But—as someone who loves him and even wrote my senior thesis on Bros K and The Idiot (my favorite)—I concede that in any translation he probably works best if you're a God-hungry Russophile, which is a pretty niche category of reader and person.

11 years ago @ The Toast - Let Us Consider the Mo... · 0 replies · +4 points

Heee, this also tends to be my feel-bad work-listening trajectory. (For me, bluegrass = Bill Monroe, Louvin Brothers, etc., I don't follow the modern scene.) I think for me the pattern is: mope flamboyantly in that wonderful Mountain Goats way (I remember an explanatory interview quote of his as going something like: "Sometimes the best way to feel bad is to feel awesome."), then eventually just let the dry fire of gospel bluegrass cleanse you of all personal feeling.

11 years ago @ The Toast - Bird of the Month: The... · 0 replies · +3 points

Also western tanagers are some consolation! And man, I miss the ravens from my time in New Mexico—of course you can get crows anywhere and those are good too, but nothing beats those beaky, croaky friends.

12 years ago @ The Toast - Bird of the Month: The... · 0 replies · +1 points

Corrrrvidddds, I love 'em all. But especially ravens (but I don't live where they live anymore :<(> ). I highly recommend this book about their impressive brains and societies! http://www.amazon.com/Ravens-Winter-Bernd-Heinric...

12 years ago @ The Toast - A Veterinarian Would L... · 0 replies · +1 points

Oh, we got our rescue at around the same age. The process of overcoming her separation anxiety was gradual; probably took about a year until she was consistently totally fine. (For us, a major help was just giving up trying to crate her—I know it's really comforting for lots of dogs, but in this case getting her in there was stressing her out so much that there was nowhere to go but down. We just ended up dog-proofing the main rooms and letting her hang out freely in them.)

If she starts freaking out as soon as you make moves to leave, you might try a program of desensitization. Try, say, picking up your keys and walking toward the door a bunch of times (when you have no plans to go anywhere) if that's what sets her off, and reward her when she's able to handle it calmly. Then you can progress to opening the door, stepping outside for a moment, and so on. It'll at least buy you some time and give her less time to ramp up the freakout.

Finally: you've probably figured this out already, but an early mistake we made was spending a lot of time coaxing her into the crate or petting her and trying to calm her down before we left. The bandaid approach works much better than a gradual departure in which the dog has time to sense that something bad's about to happen

12 years ago @ The Toast - A Veterinarian Would L... · 0 replies · +1 points

Can she be distracted by treats? A hearty Kong was what allowed us to at least get out of the house before the horrible yelping started. Eventually, she calmed down and now is fine—probably partly just because she's gotten mellower and started trusting that we'll come back, but I imagine the association between us leaving and her getting tasty things is pretty strong by now. Hang in there!