Knowing that you feel that SAHM's and homeschooling is best, do you silently judge me because I work outside the home and send my child to a public school? My husband does not work in a stable field. In our 15 plus years of marriage, he has been laid off MANY times. The longest period of time was between Dec 28, 2008 to April 12, 2010. If it weren't for me working to support my family, we would be homeless.

My husband also committed infidelity. I chose to forgive him (as God calls us to do) rather than divorce him. Infidelity is a Biblical reason to divorce my husband, Again, had I chose to divorce my husband, I'd have to work in order to support myself and my son. We went to counseling but then less than 4 months after my discovering his infidelity, I got cancer!!! So, the counseling got put on hold. It was only through my faith in our Lord (and a few blog posts on Women Living Well and To Love Honor and Vacuum) that I got through the roughest period of my then 39 years on earth.