Thanks Ron for this post. I read your blog a lot and always find it helpful. Having been so positive I guess I should criticise you now, but I don't need to because it's all good :)
Your post describes the situation in our church very well. As I walk through my area on a Sunday, I see people sitting in cafes, playing in parks and shopping, but I don't see many of them at church. They are not waiting for better music, preaching or kids' programs; they are not interested. I agree with you that we have to do more of the 'going' so that people will have a chance to meet Jesus.
I love this prayer, just spent time praying for my friends and family. Each part of the prayer helped me to pray deeply for them.