And after letting his thoughts wander for a moment, he came back to where his heart was, this strawberry blonde-haired little girl that brimmed his life with joy and excitement.

I am laughing my heart out! this is really funny! Thanks!

Great post Ron!

It might be many things. Yes, fear is a big factor as Artie says, but we shouldn't dismiss also other factors such as depression and similar physiological factors. It is also true for what does the individual considers "knowing". You might have a wrong perspective of something and stale because of that perspective. I know talented individuals that had not moved into their full potential because of these issues. You can reason with them, but not necessarily make them move to action and further help (professional) and deeper love is needed.