Spicy Cauldron
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14 years ago @ The Spicy Cauldron - Hepburn, our first-eve... · 0 replies · +1 points
14 years ago @ The Spicy Cauldron - Poem: Why Don\'t We Sa... · 0 replies · +1 points
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14 years ago @ The Spicy Cauldron - More bigotry and bile ... · 0 replies · +1 points
As I went to great pains to say, yes, there have to be rules, there will always be some who fall outside them. I am also saying a sensationalist resorting to homophobia is NOT the answer for the families who feel they somehow suffer under whatever rules are currently in place. And the tabloid press meddle not for the sake of the children, but for meddling's sake alone to make waves and pursue the agenda of editors and owners. The families are best served by taking matters to those who can change things, if change is needed--MPs, charities, campaign groups whose agendas are not fuelled by hatred. But it remains the case that, in this situation, the grandparents were most likely ruled out for reasons we don't and won't know. Age was unlikely to be the driving factor behind the decision. But age is a convenient 'hook' to engage the rage of Daily Mail readers addicted to moral outrage: one day asylum seekers, the next day poofters.
And frankly, while I have nothing but praise for your apparent loathing of ageism, it fails to be accompanied in what you write in your comment by an equal defence of people's rights not to be judged on sex, sexuality, ability and skin colour. I rather think therefore that it comes across as somewhat one-sided. If we are to get a fairer world we cannot pick and mix who can be bullied and who can't. The Mail sets great store on defending the old only because it's readership is aged and/or ageing, and of particular mind-sets. It gives not a shit for anti-racism, anti-sexism, anti-homophobia. If it did, it would not be the Daily Mail.
Richard Littlejohn, it's long-time columnist and infamously vicious homophobe, today features on the front page displaying his usual ignorance, mouthing off about how wrong it is to take kids and give them to two gay men instead of the grandparents. He knows fuck all about this specific circumstance, or the rules applied. But this absence of informed knowledge has never stopped him shooting his mouth off whenever there's a story involving the minorities he despises, and all because he doesn't like being who he is. This story is NOT about the children. It is about stirring up hatred of gay men. Anything else you may glean from it is illusory. The children are a way in to the main event of hatemongering.
We don't know in what ways the grandparents did not successfully address the concerns of Social Services. Such information is kept confidential, for the safety and respect of all involved. It is only right. So to suggest that the decision against the grandparents is ageism is at best based on the word of a scurrilous tabloid newspaper, which may be putting words in people's mouths, and at worst downright deceptive.
Blood relations do not have a right to take on their grandchildren without being assessed. Not in 2009. People can, of course, campaign for change. But then one day the time would surely come when a relative adopted, say, a grandchild, and something dreadful happened to that kid afterwards. Where would the naysayers of today be then? I suggest no wrongdoing or crime on the part of the grandparents in this story. None whatsoever. I know nothing about them. But I do know that every murderer, every rapist, every thief, every paedophile, every criminal is someone's brother or sister, someone's daughter or son, someone's mother or father, someone's grandma or grandfather. They do not grow in pots. If we allowed blood relativity to provide an open and unquestioned right to adopt within the family without investigation and assessment by professionals, the risks to the children's welfare would frankly be unacceptable. To me, at least. Perhaps not to the gutter press, for any outrage or horror would, of course, make front-page headlines and sell to people who like to get angry about those they perceive as taking their jobs, their children, their way of life.
14 years ago @ The Spicy Cauldron - Hack! Cough! Splutter!... · 0 replies · +1 points
14 years ago @ The Spicy Cauldron - The miracle hen that s... · 0 replies · +1 points
She's moulting at present, and looks absolutely dreadful. She'll be fully re-feathered in about a month's time. And she's as personable and clever, as hens go, as she ever was. See, that makes the tragedy of battery hens all the more horrific: they are the friendliest, cleverest of chickens and yet they're forced to endure absolute hell in a box for a year before most of them end up as pet food, fertiliser or takeaway curries. My view, it's evil.
14 years ago @ The Spicy Cauldron - Time to stop thinking ... · 0 replies · +1 points
14 years ago @ The Spicy Cauldron - Time to stop thinking ... · 0 replies · +1 points
I just don't know on the 'voting back in' part. I suspect more people than we might in down times expect do see the Tories as being part of the problem and not the solution--but as you say, what is the solution, where are the choices?
14 years ago @ The Spicy Cauldron - A funny egg · 0 replies · +1 points
14 years ago @ The Spicy Cauldron - A funny egg · 0 replies · +1 points