I barely remember the 9/11 tragedy, when I first heart of it. The only thing that sticks to my mind was the fact that there was Kazakh girl, who did not have enough time to get out from that building. It was very sad information for our family, and I guess for the whole our country. I did not even think about other people who have experienced such terrible act of terrorists. Maybe I was too little to understand that. I did not even know, what the word terrorist mean.
Coming to USA changed my view to this horrible event. Honestly if I had any opinion about that situation. I did not understand the hatred to the Muslim people that some of the American population had. However, now I understand, how people lost their family members, wives, husbands, and friends. That is indeed, sad. I really feel sorry for them. Moreover, the other fact surprises me more, the fact, that people think that all the Muslims are terrorists. That is not true and fare to think in that way. Because, Islam cannot be evaluated only by a few fanatic Muslim people. Why people do not judge other religions by few killers and murderers of that religion. And it is not fare that these fake Muslim people cover their selves by the some misread parts of the Holly Kuran and do bad actions, and by that denigrate other muslim people. I am muslim person, and this makes me very sad.
The incident that happened in Boston is less tragic, because only 3 people were killed, but is not less sad. My boyfriend studies in Boston, and the first thing that I did is calling to him. After I knew that he is ok, I started to search information about that incident. That is the main difference between 9/11 and this tragedy. Instead of listening what my parents and elders said about 9/11 to me, I wanted to know everything by myself and without subjective opinion of my relatives.
There were a lot blurry things; firstly it was said that these people who did that were from Kazakhstan. That made me very angry. Then, it was said that from Russia and they are Muslim people, this fact made me angry even more. Again Islam suffers and being denigrated by not proper representatives of that religion.
Now I am grown up and more mature, and can think more widely and not be too judgmental. I think that is good to not live in the small bubble and to think similarly as everybody. It is better to discover any incident and any problem that happening in the world from different prospective, and put yourself into their shoes. If everybody will do that, there wont be such misunderstands and fights between people.

Intimacy and sex have a special place in human life, the nature of complex mechanisms conceived relationship between opposite sexes for procreation. Today the attitude toward sexuality has changed, it is not a mystery, and more and more women want to enjoy the process as well as men.
However, if a man to have an orgasm, rather simple mechanical action, for women it is the emotional component of the alloy, physical relaxation and feelings to your partner. Women's essence is much thinner and more sensitive man, so she will not be able to reach the highest point of pleasure, if something in the bed does not suit. For example, this may be the situation, the background music, the smell, the creak of the bed, etc. One can list a great many reasons, which can be the reason that the girl in the evening unmet.
Very important is the mood of the girl during sex. Maybe you are overworked at work, unable to relax, to forget about all unwanted thoughts, then the orgasm you just can not reach.
Therefore, for the girl is more important than for a guy various foreplay. It is important to forget about everything that had accumulated for the day, to focus solely on their feelings in order to reach orgasm.
Simulation orgasm - it is, unfortunately, not uncommon among members of the fairer sex. Again, as polls show, more than eighty percent of women at least once in life, but the simulated orgasm. Even there are women who have never experiencing orgasm, play the role of his advance almost all his life. Simulate orgasm women, primarily due to men, many of whom will feel clumsy, if not will bring his partner to orgasm.
I see some of the reasons of orgasm simulations such as:
1)Reward man
When the man in the bed struggling to bring a woman pleasure, and she can not get it to the full, then play orgasm sometimes already gone through a sense of duty. After all, what man does not like to watch the enthusiastic and full of pleasure sweetheart! And such a lover can not afford to disappoint the satellite.
2) Quickly to all over
Woman full of resentment toward your husband or physically tired, can afford to sex, but for the early completion aims to create all the conditions. And we all know that the emotional longing lover man on happiness ends all the cases. Therefore, this clever move, many women are reserved for such cases.
3) Lack of ability to get an orgasm
Women who have problems with achieving orgasm often do not want to know about it with their satellites. Instead, many prefer a frank talk disguised as simulating the highest pleasure. This is the biggest mistake. After all, it is still possible to solve together. And alone in this way the problem is only getting worse.

Nowadays, working abroad attracts young people looking for new experiences and skilled professionals who want to gain work experience abroad and at the same time improve their conditions. Perhaps, every one of you at least once in their lives and at least hypothetically thought about leaving home and go to work (temporarily or permanently) to another country.
For some, working abroad - a dream of a lifetime: high salaries, the opportunity to learn the language, the chance to see the world. Others have foreign work experience is associated with a "brain drain" and a betrayal of the motherland.
As I was child my mom and my dad always wanted me to study abroad. They always wanted me to have British or American diploma, so I could find good jib back in my home country. As I studied and worked hard, finally my dream came true. I won international scholarship, and now studying here in Penn State University.
I often asked myself why the foreign diploma is really big deal in our country. And why people of our country want to go abroad to work for certain period of time, and even stay permanently. I tried to find all pros and cons of working and living abroad.
Let's start with the advantages of arguments "for". Working abroad - is:
1: Opportunity to live in another country, get to know new to the culture, to see the world;
2:good language practice: you can improve your English with native speakers, if, for example, to go to England or the U.S., or to learn another foreign language;
3: higher wages, and often new career opportunities;
4:the opportunity to continue to be a citizen of the economically prosperous country, with high standards of social welfare.
On the other hand, it can be called such cons of working abroad:
1:you will not be able to meet with friends and family as often as before;
2:to adapt to a foreign culture can be psychologically difficult, and even if your individual English / German / Italian is good enough to communicate fluently with native speakers, find common ground with people of other countries still difficult;
3:when abroad, you agree to unskilled labor, because you can not work by your specialty, you lose the skills and, therefore, in the future it will be difficult to return to its core business. Perhaps for the same time at home you could move up the career ladder, or just find a better paying job, for example, in another city, but not necessarily in foreign countries;
4:moving involved with difficulties and risks, including the threat to your safety and life.
Considering all the above written, I would say I will take all the knowledge and opportunities of studying abroad and living abroad a take them back to my country. In order to make my country better and more developed.

Nepotism (from Lat. Nepos, b. nepotis - grandson, nephew) - the distribution of popes in order to strengthen his power of profitable positions of higher rank or church lands of kin. Was widely distributed in the XV-XVI centuries. In a broader sense (now) - nepotism.
Nepotism appeared in the Middle Ages, when the popes, taking care to strengthen their power, began distributing the highest church positions, especially scarlet hat, his relatives. They were first cousins​​, hence the name of nepotism. Later, especially in the XV-XVI centuries, they were illegitimate children. For example, Alexander VI, Cardinal made ​​his son Cesare, and Pope Paul III - his grandchildren. Nepotism starts becoming obsolete to the XVIII century. On the orders of Pope Innocent XII, in the College of Cardinals was only one Nepos. The XIX century nepotism in the church hierarchy was winding down.
Nepotism reached the highest magnitude in the Renaissance, when the popes became the Italian princes and wanted to buy for his numerous progeny principalities and duchies. There were whole "papal" dynasty, such as the Orsini family, Conti, della Rovere, the Medici, Borgia, Piccolomini, Savelli. Later, the term "black nobility": the descendants of Nepos, who became princely or ducal names such as Bonkompani, Borghese, Barberini, Pamphili, Chigi, Odescalchi, Ludovisi, Albany, Ruspoli, Ruffo and many others.
n the modern world, experts also note the existence of nepotism. In one form or another it is peculiar to the vast majority of countries. Policymakers generally do not have the opportunity to transfer his power to children directly, but they use their ability to provide their close relatives, such as leadership positions in major business structures. The harm of nepotism is that the person appointed to the new position without going through the professional selection and often not a good specialist. This phenomenon is seen as a manifestation of corruption in the relevant UN conventions.

There is the view that the so-called "positive discrimination" - the provision of traditionally disadvantaged sections of society some of the benefits. But the question of fairness, legality and appropriateness of positive discrimination is not finally settled. In particular, the discussion of the U.S. Supreme Court eligibility laws guaranteeing blacks preferential conditions for admission to universities, despite the worst of the average performance of black students of race, the Court found among supporters of opposing points of view on this issue.

The opposite view is that the fight against discrimination against minorities and positive discrimination in some cases leads to the reverse situation - discrimination descendants of former oppressors (so, in relation to Zimbabwe after the start of an active campaign for the rights of blacks to the term "black racism", which understood aggressive demands recognition priori rightness black in any of its conflict with the white, but some observers have questioned the prevalence of this phenomenon). In states where the issue of discrimination is particularly acute in recent periodically undergo trials that are already members of the majority are trying to assert their rights infringed, according to them, by means of laws and regulations designed to combat discrimination (see, for example, the process).

As we look through Haiti history, we see that it was the first independent Black Country. Although before gaining their own independence, it was one of the most profitable French colonies. The people of Haiti achieved high results in agriculture field. And as an outcome, when Haiti claimed their freedom, it meant a great amount of lost for French economy. It was the reason why France acknowledged Haiti to pay 90 000 000F. This is why the development of this country government started not as successfully as it could.
Nowadays, the Haiti’s economy still did not recover from the debt. Moreover, their businesses are not competitive with other countries. In other words, people of Haiti cannot afford better life. There are not enough recourse to develop and provide good infrastructure, including medical care and education. Furthermore, there are simply no work places for the citizens. It seems to be the dead end for the economy.
As we learnt for the lecture the USA farmers export cheap rice to Haiti. Because of this the local business of the country struggles a lot. In simple terms, the residents would rather buy cheaper product, even thought it harms their own economy and development. The local farmers of Haiti cannot run their own business because of the lack of the clients and the assets.
From the all reasons above we can clearly picture the horrible situation that individuals of the Haiti faces everyday. We as the citizens of the world should not stay behind this scene. It is in our responsibilities to provide help for the third countries. And as we know that the republic of Haiti is one of them.
The United States of America is undoubtedly one of the most developed countries of the world. And it should take a part in this significant process. People should understand that it is not just a hand of help, but such action literally saves people’s lives from starvation and diseases. However, we should not use our standards and designs to decide what is better for the Haiti citizens. Instead we should ask them first, to find out their needs and concerns. And only then we should create a unique plan of possible ways of providing efficient help. For example, instead of throwing tons of unneeded goods and supplements on their market shelves, we should create sufficient infrastructure and work places. Also, we should help to raise a private sector without the government influence. Although, we should remember that Haiti has to stay independent, even thought the help will be provided. Moreover, the citizens of the country must desire their own development, and won’t be afraid to move forward and do something for their own good.

Honestly speaking, I was intrigued by the professor’s small introduction to the Thursday’s lecture, where he encouraged students to come and bring relatives, sibling, as he was going to tell something very interesting what other people do not know. I was waiting for something very controversial and debatable, that could somehow shake my religion and my faith, anyway I was skeptical. However, very waited for that mysterious lecture.
In that lecture professor Sam Richards told us very interesting facts about the people who experienced clinical deaths. And these people’s experiences surprisingly were same and identical. He questioned this fact and suggested that must have meant something. However not everybody who went thought the death and came back safely had same dreams or illusions. The ones who tried to commit suicide had totally different experience than those who had clinical deaths. They felt pain and suffer.
The other interesting point that Sam Richards made that no matter the religions that we, people, might have, all of us going to go to the same place.
I will try to explain did or did not all the above written facts shake my religion. First of all, as the religious person, practicing Islam I strongly believe that all people alive and dead going to go to the same place and going experience the same stages and rules before and after the day Judgment, no matter the religion they had before in real life. So, that is why, professor, instead proved the beliefs that I had before the lecture.
In Islam people should not be afraid of death. For those people, who believe and do the righteous actions the death must not be frightening and terrifying. For instance, when the fruit’s seed falls to the ground, then it seems that it is dying. However, it goes through certain stages of development, and in the end, it turns into a tree. The "death" of the fruit seed appears to be the beginning of the life of a new tree, which is more advanced stage of development. The death of a person is similar to this seed. Human as going to be buried, is going to acquire Eternal life.
Unfortunately, I have nothing to say about people’s experience in clinical deaths. I hope and know, in that must be the wisdom of the God. Only he knows the real answer for that question.
So, did this lecture change my view to the life and shake my faith, I would totally say it did not. I hope that this lecture could help to a lot people to find their paths and ways to the faith, or have proved their previous beliefs. I hope everybody were pleased and satisfied after the lecture.

In incent time in human history there have been times when killing newborn twins or triplets, because it was believed that they bring bad luck. Children, who were left-handed by birth, were beaten or killed because people believed in what they are possessed by Satan. Then children with red hair or those with birth and remained blue eyes, were thrown, and considered as "devils."
I do not think if we try to discover the reason why people are homosexual ("gay or lesbian") or not, will bring us some benefit or answers. Perhaps parents can give best answers for that: "No one really knows why people are homosexuality, just as no one knows why some people -" left handed. "Every single person - the person in the first place.
It may be useful to add that people used to think that it might be "due to" any circumstances in childhood, such as his father's absence, inadequate secretion of hormones in the body, or child abuse. Now we know that the sexual attraction to the same sex can not "pick up" or "get" them, and that many "gays and lesbians" feel that they were born with a sexual orientation. Some of them prefer to live in a homosexual relationship, and / or community, because the experienced and the bad attitude of the people, and loneliness.
First of all, I believe that parents should explain to the children that each of us has the right to call yourself whatever you like. However, no one has the right to call a person or discriminate against him on whatever was featured - on sexual orientation, color or creed.
My dream is that in the near future, we, the people were able to bring myself to show more maturity in relation to those who are born with a homosexual or bisexual orientation. I say "in the near future" because homophobia is killing our children, regardless of their sexual orientation. Suicide among adolescents and young people are often associated with fears about sexual orientation, fears, which are exacerbated due to humiliation, insults, jokes, high-profile public figures statements expressing negative attitudes toward homosexuality in our society. Among adolescents and young people rising incidence of testicular cancer, because they are afraid to engage in self-control, "If I touch myself, it means that I -" Blue (gay). "
The younger the child, which parents respond to the questions, the quieter it receives information "from a scientific point of view," that is, without any bias. Here is one of the answers to the questions children younger: some people when they grow up, they want to have sex only with people of the opposite sex, while others - only with people of the same gender.

I was very amazed on Tuesday’s lecture when students were asked to answer to the questions like “Who has an eating disorder?” or “Who cuts themselves” how many out of the 700 people answered YES.
I have never interested in such diseases like bulimia or anorexia. I did not know how severe these diseases can be and how people can suffer because of that.
Once my mom tried to make a joke, when I did not finish my dinner meal, she asked me if I had bulimia or anorexia. But I did not pay attention to such sarcastic joke, because I never had such problem. I eat everything that I want, and whenever I want. Especially, my refrigerator suffers at nighttime, when I tip toe to the kitchen so nobody sees me.
After Tuesday’s class, I started to search about anorexia and bulimia. I wanted to find these invisible strings that connect all the people with the similar problems and concerns, whether it is eating disorder problems, cutting themselves or sexual orientations. And I was surprised how these people are similar in their problems, reasons, and concerns. Only then I finally I understood what professor Sam Richards meant by saying about THAT invisible strings. People cannot even imagine how our society and media make us to do some decision which we do not even realize. Most of the people by committing that free suicides, indeed are not free in the reasons and motives of that suicides.
There is one famous television show in Russia called as “Let them talk” where ordinary people, celebrities, artists, singers tell their problems and share with the nation. In of the shows there were discussed about people who have severe conditions in bulimia and anorexia.
There they discussed about few girls who brought their organism till depletion and starvations. The 19 year girl who’s height is 158 with the weight of 20 kilograms made suffer not only herself but also her family and friends. She was normal girl with her own goals and priorities come across with the glossy magazines where the standard beauty shown as skinniness and leanness. Then she started to think she is not good enough in her appearance and body, she does not look like this skinny models. She started to keep diets, the she realized that keeping diets is too long to get results and she stopped to eat at all. As result she earned the disease well know as anorexia. Now nobody can help he even doctors. And she still keep loosing her weight even if she started to eat. All the other girls in this show started this long way of starving after seeing these glamorous pages of magazines. Here the invisible stings, which connect these poor girls, are the running after the stereotypes of the skinny beauty and considering themselves not attractive enough.
I want to say to these girls that real beauty is not the appearance, but the inner world you have. There are no ugly people in this world; there are only lazy people, who do not want to work and reach the goals, instead choosing the easiest way. And start to love yourselves as the way you really are.
PS: EAT, SLEEP, STUDY, and go to gym☺

First of all I want to thank you for such interesting question and for the chance to answer to it.
I was raised in a traditional muslim family. My mother and father gave me the basis of islam from my childhood, and for that I am very thankful for them. My parents do not practice islam by that I mean they do not pray, but they believe that Allah is the creator and the Muhammad is the messenger of the God. They celebrate muslim events, and they fast every Ramadan. They believe that all tha bad and good things happening are only by the God will, and so do I.
I respect all human rights, weather the person choose believe in any God or not. That is why I will respect any choice of my children. Anyway I will try to give my children good muslim upbringing, and the further it is their decision to make, weather to believe in one creator, to marry atheist or not, for that I will not love and care them less. But I think for me it will be difficult to share the ideas of atheist person.
But if talk about my marriage I would marry only for the muslim person, because my dad one told me” Prophet Muhammad said that the best of men is who is the best in his character, and best of the them is he who is the best with his the lady after he married her. So when you do marry her or him ,so, do with the intention of paradise is where you plane to carry him or her. That is why Muhammad said marry for four reasons→ beauty, family, status, and but most important it is their religion” that is why I want to marry to muslim person.
As a muslim person if something happens with good I will thank the God, and if something happens bad I will know that it is the God test send to me. That kind of thinking gives me relief and happiness. And I enjoy being muslim.
I personally think that atheist people are very lazy people. They fade up of searching the truth and just gave up. It is easier to live without the meaning of the life. They afraid to live without any restrictions, religious obligations and they follow only their desires and seductions. Atheist people do not believe in soul and the day of the judgment.
I do not want to be judgmental, and to call out people. Every person in this world has a right and opportunity to decide what is good or bad for him or her. That is why believe people should decide what is better for them and for their family. People should choose the person, who share same ideas and same beliefs to live happy life till last day of their entire life.

First of all, let's define some terms. What is fear? What are the fears? And this is what science tells us about it --"Fear - is the internal state due to actual or anticipated tragedy". From the point of view of psychology, this negatively stained emotional process associated with a sense of danger, real or imagined.
Among the people you know, for sure, there are people who are terribly afraid to learn to swim for the fear of drowning, fear of sharp objects pass by the fears of a fatal injury, fear treated teeth (because it was once very painful.), Afraid to fall in love (because that thus become dependent on the favorite. because love brings anguish and often - and the pain from the lack of mutual love, of separation from loved ones.). Someone thinks it important, but is afraid to organize the presentation of the new service. For some, it is important to make a decision, but he or she was afraid to make a mistake. Such fears in professional language called phobias and mental problems are considered.
Among these fears - neophobia - fear of the new, change, and social phobia - fear of public contacts.
We - are animals, only with a higher level of mental development. And the higher you stand, as you know, the harder you fall. With reference to the above dialogue, it means the following. If I had not helped my companion to take innovative keyboard loyal, he still would have tried it in work. But that would be at risk and under the influence of the environment, denying the novelty of that, of course, would have a negative impact on his health.
So, here comes the question how to stop being afraid of novelty?
I tried to answer to this not an easy question; here is what I am come with. Any fear as fear of novelty - a sign of "not knowing" or ignorance. In other words, learn, and fear will pass. Fear - it is a sign of habits do not move, do not enter into life, keep in diapers. In other words it is conservatism.
The conclusion is that the fear of novelty disappears, if we thoroughly examine, test a new product on their own and rely on the reviews.
People should be open to new things, cultures, food, places and innovations. The life is too short to be afraid and skip the beauties of the world. Life is too short to be angry, doubt, fear, resent, test negative and be in the negative, useless to engage in soul. Want to live in the present, live ... and rejoice every moment, every breath ... Do not forget the best, forget the bad ... In life there's only one good thing and the best thing --- it is the life itself.