Thanks, LaTercera :)
That's really good advice!
I'm torn on how to advise you here. I was in a somewhat similar situation as the author and I did call him out. I said "I know you're going to rape me, so you should just do it now and get it over with so I can leave sooner." I thought about mentioning the police but a) I didn't have cell phone service and b) I was afraid he would kill me if he thought I might actually call them. Calling his bluff didn't work at all--he basically ignored me and continued to pretend that we were having a normal interaction while I was locked in his room against my will. I had to play the maze game for a few more hours got raped anyway. I even tried another callout, like "I know you're a decent guy and you don't want to have something like rape on your conscience" but that failed too. However! Playing the maze game and feigning cooperation did at least convince him to wear a condom. That's a really serious consideration that doesn't get mentioned very often...
I tend to think that rape-y types have already done such a thorough job of convincing themselves that what they're doing isn't wrong (women want it, they're just being teases, they're slutty and deserve it, etc) that naming the behavior won't change anything. But maybe there are dudes who aren't fully committed to rape but slip into threatening behavior because of societal conditioning? They might respond to being confronted.
So my conclusion is you might as well trying them call out, and that the maze game can potentially save you from STIs. But I would be really wary about talking about calling the police, because the guy could see that as a threat (of jail time/exposure as a creep) and get more aggressive. As LaTercera said below, it really depends on how physically trapped you are. Anyway, I really hope you never have to make this decision!
And if we're ranking Will Smith's dogs I would go with the dog in I Am Legend because of the emotional bond. But it might actually be the same dog actor, so whatever.
I actually met the dog from Beethoven when I was a kid. I tried to hug him but I was prevented from doing so by a CASCADE OF DROOL. He's cuter from a distance.
WHAT ABOUT RIKER? Didn't anyone else watch TNG as an impressionable child? I tried to transfer my crush to Geordi because he seemed more age-appropriate, but I just could not resist Riker's manly beard and philandering ways.
I believed this book was real when I was a kid, but the weird thing is I totally noticed how bizarre and stilted the writing was. I just thought teens in the 60s were like that!
Ugh now I feel all emotional because this is such a big and horrible part of my life and I never tell anyone about it because it feels like an admission of weakness.
WAIT how are phobias easily treatable?? I have had really bad emetophobia for most of my life, and I would throw money at anyone who could treat me. I've had therapy (normal and hypnotherapy) that helped me become a functional human being and eat food regularly, but the fear is just as strong as ever. I haven't thrown up in 16 years because I can't allow myself to, and I wish I could have a normal relationship with what is really a normal part of life. If you have any suggestions for treatment options I would really appreciate it! This phobia doesn't really affect my life on a daily basis but it does make me hesitant to do things I would otherwise want to do, like get pregnant or take ayahuasca or travel to countries where people often get food poisoning. Sometimes I feel weak for not being able to overcome this through sheer willpower, so it makes me feel better to see how many other people on the thread have the same problem.
Side note: unlike most of the other emetophobes on this thread, I have no problem with seeing/hearing other people vomit (I mean, it's hella gross, but it doesn't disturb me) and I can totally take care of pukey drunk friends. I just can't face it myself or allow myself to throw up even when I'm really sick and I would feel better if I did.
If I was a ghost slut, Dan Ackroyd would not be my first choice of ghostbuster to blow (Egon>token black ghostbuster>Venkman)!
I've heard two conspiracy theories from friends in China: first, that one of the passengers was the girlfriend of a Chinese spy and the U.S. diverted the plane to get her, because they believe the spy told her lots of secrets. This is terrifying because if it's true, they would have to dispose of the rest of passengers somehow.
The second is that a "suspicious cargo" that originated from an American ship was on the plane, and China found out about this and told the plane to land in China. Then it went off course and landed on a US aircraft carrier. This information supposedly came from the Kremlin's intelligence service. The argument for this being true is that the US military monitors the area where the plane disappeared so they should have radar evidence of its course.