hugpunch
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8 years ago @ The Toast - Thank You, Toast. · 3 replies · +77 points
Thank you forever.
8 years ago @ The Toast - Stores: A Butch Storie... · 8 replies · +94 points
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8 years ago @ The Toast - Some Unorganized Mixed... · 0 replies · +12 points
Fear not, for not all lesbians or queer people have had the same experiences. It may seem that way on the surface - sort of the way stereotypes are made to function, unfortunately - but everyone is different, just as you've gotten to this point in your life through your own unique experiences.
You get to define you. No one else, not even your partner. You get to choose what you want to be called, and it's on the rest of us to respect that. It's not your burden.
I wish you the very best, and I hope you find people and places who don't make you compromise yourself for their comfort.
8 years ago @ The Toast - If Mary-Louise Parker ... · 0 replies · +9 points