That's a toughie. I've been struggling a lot with this lately too--I moved away from the city I loved and had licensure in my profession mostly for my boyfriend. All of my girlfriends are graduating with PhDs and staying put for men even though they are boss bitches, and it makes me so sad that we're putting guys before our careers. At the same time, personal happiness is probably more important than job fulfillment. (I think? I don't know?)

I want to be a bottle of sriracha but haven't planned/bought the sriracha shirt i would need so I dunno