I have always felt like that my son will be four in acouple of days and I know start to notice how prepared every other mom is, Its a huge disaster when he pees or needs a snack because that change of clothes is forgotten some where in the house. lol but I care more about the actual safety. I think when I have another one I will try to be more stylish lol. I wanna try and be supermom but I do not want to be a spazz about things