DoubtfulGuest

DoubtfulGuest

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8 years ago @ The Toast - An Open Thread, and Se... · 0 replies · +2 points

Oh my God, oh my God, oh my God! I was just going on about Redbubble last night, and this is wonderful, and I am going to order one for sure!

8 years ago @ The Toast - An Open Thread, and Se... · 0 replies · +4 points

These sound delightful.

8 years ago @ The Toast - An Open Thread, and Se... · 0 replies · +3 points

So yeah, now I'm going to cry every Christmas Eve when we watch Muppets Christmas Carol.

8 years ago @ The Toast - Hey Ladies: Take it to... · 1 reply · +2 points

I have all of these things at home. I will take that as a sign that I must make this.

8 years ago @ The Toast - Hey Ladies: Take it to... · 0 replies · +11 points

It's a deal! :-D

8 years ago @ The Toast - Hey Ladies: Take it to... · 3 replies · +31 points

This might be my problem? Also, I'm a little shy about jumping into the conversation. For some reason, Internet socializing intimidates me in a way that real-life interaction does not.

8 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 0 replies · +7 points

Yes, I definitely have a problem with the female guilt issue and feeling like other people's comfort is my responsibility. It's something I have been trying to work on, with varying degrees of success.

I am short and have kind of a young-looking face, so I'm not very intimidating. The personal space bubble that I need to be comfortable isn't even that big, and some people seem to take my willingness to engage in conversation or, say, to dance with them, as an invitation to touch me in ways that I'm not at all OK with.

8 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 10 replies · +18 points

Re inappropriate touching: Does anyone have good strategies for shutting it down and feeling positive about the outcome? I always end up feeling crappy about the whole thing and coming up with a zillion ways I could have handled it better way after the fact.

8 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 0 replies · +3 points

That makes sense!

8 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 7 replies · +19 points

Doing calf raises makes me have to poop. I can't figure out any anatomical reason why this should be true, but it definitely is.