Vincent Ignatius

Vincent Ignatius

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233 weeks ago @ Hooking Up Smart - The Complex Psychology... · 0 replies · +1 points

Robin,

It's not really your intelligence that I question, but your credulity.

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you would pass my radar. I have met one girl who got herpes much like you did, and I had no clue until she told me.

Girls definitely pick up the narcissistic vibe, that's one of the reasons I do so well. The joys of female psychology. They don't however have the resources to know how promiscuous I am. With so many hook ups outside of their social network, and rationalization being what it is, most girls probably assume a few girls per year at most. Though I do meet your definition of promiscuous.

As far as my LTR potential, girls know that I'm highly educated, come from a good family, and I love kids. I'm responsible with money and based on my previous achievements, I probably have a good future ahead of me. On paper, I look like a great husband.

I don't know what jaded opinion you think I have of women. Women are products of their evolutionary history, just like men. It's just that my understanding of women prevents me from wanting to marry them. The perfect wife post was more of a joke. A woman would have to be impossibly perfect to get me to marry her in this environment. I may someday settle into a lifelong relationship or marry if laws change enough to make it a favorable proposition for a high-earning man.

Did a woman with herpes malign MY LTR potential?
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233 weeks ago @ Hooking Up Smart - It's About Time: The N... · 1 reply · +1 points

I'm hesitant to buy into it until girls actually start changing their behavior. It's game 101 to ignore what women say, and pay attention to what they actually do. Girls may claim they don't want players, but I'll bet money that if you observe them in the field, most of those women will go after players over nice guys.

Players still won't be the choice for LTRs, except for the top girls who think they can actually keep him around.
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234 weeks ago @ Hooking Up Smart - The Complex Psychology... · 3 replies · +1 points

Women aren't nearly as smart (or beautiful) as they think they are. I never claimed women didn't know that I was promiscuous, only that they don't know the extent of my promiscuity.

It's hard to gauge what my assessment of your cleanliness would be, but based on what you've written, I would assume you were filthy and work from there. If you were promiscuous when you were younger, it would either leave an indelible scar on your psyche or you have a masculine personality that would automatically put you in the dirty category. If you work in law or business, I would assume you were slutty. To me, middle middle class in a professional environment = normal.

None of this would make me think you were a bad person, just not attractive for a long-term relationship.
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234 weeks ago @ Hooking Up Smart - The Complex Psychology... · 0 replies · +1 points

I'm being very honest. Hiding behind my online pseudonym, I can unload a ton of baggage. If you read my blog, I'm not just blogging about womanizing, but also revealing how I lost my first love. I may be over the top at times, but that really is my life. The boring parts are missing because, well, they're boring.
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234 weeks ago @ Hooking Up Smart - The Complex Psychology... · 5 replies · +1 points

I'm actually not trying to shock. The young women who read your blog would probably benefit from knowing that there are men like me around.

Define the perfect husband. It's different for every woman.
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234 weeks ago @ Hooking Up Smart - The Complex Psychology... · 0 replies · +1 points

I second that suggestion. I've tried the female condom and it was actually much better. It is very awkward, but the sensation is noticeably better than with any condom.
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234 weeks ago @ Hooking Up Smart - The Complex Psychology... · 10 replies · +1 points

The women I sleep with don't know how promiscuous I am. The social circles I work my way through are fragmented enough that women rarely know of more than one or two other girls I've been with, and those girls usually seem clean enough that the new one doesn't think there's much of a risk. The fact that there are two other large universities nearby aids me in hiding girls from each other.

Most of the women I have sex with are graduate students, a relatively low risk population. Whenever I sleep with regular girls, I use a condom.
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234 weeks ago @ Hooking Up Smart - The Complex Psychology... · 19 replies · +1 points

Herpes is probably my biggest fear and I'm not the type to be neurotic at all. I'm not afraid of dying. I love public speaking. But I hook-up with so many random girls that I'm surprised I haven't contracted anything yet.

I'm usually safe, but I go without a condom when I feel a girl is "clean". Bad idea? Maybe, but sometimes I'd rather masturbate than have sex with a condom. I'll use a condom with all the girls I hook up with this summer and get tested when I get back in the country and before I start having sex with any of my regulars again.
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234 weeks ago @ Hooking Up Smart - The Backlash Against H... · 10 replies · +1 points

No you didn't. A man who can't have emotionless sex is not a man. Men aren't jaded by dozens of random hookups. We are however jaded if we go through too many break ups with girls we were emotionally invested in.
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234 weeks ago @ Hooking Up Smart - The Backlash Against H... · 0 replies · +1 points

I'll post about this soon. Let women know how men know these things.