thanks for posting this. i am a well of emotion as i watch it and read this. too many emotions for too many different reasons to even sort out. i am trying to cling to this truth. but it sure is difficult.
i am SO happy for you guys and what God has done and is doing in your family. thank you for sharing with us.
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Thanks Charlie St. Cloud!!!!

thank you so much for this post. i have REALLY been struggling with forgiving my husband for his affair. the struggle was really "have i forgiven him? what does that even mean in this context? how do i know?" i know that our relationship is getting better. i know that God has done a tremendous work in me, in him, in our marriage. i know that i don't hate him anymore. but have i actually FORGIVEN him??
this "definition" REALLY helped. i can see myself working through that process now. thank you so, so, so, much. this put words to this process for me. thank you!
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been readign this blog for a while. love it!!! :)

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wow! i'm so sad that you have to even question if it is worth it. i am so sorry this pain is part of your lives, but i wish you NEVER have to question if your ministry through this website (and the many other things you do) is worth it.
you both, and this website, were HUGELY instrumental in my husband confessing to me his affair 6 weeks ago. he learned SO much through reading your words. this website convinced him he HAD to COMPLETELY cut off all contact with her. his conversations with justin have been more impactful than i can say.
this website has given me hope. it has shown me that this won't kill me (which is what it feels like at times!). it has shown me that God really can redeem any mess we make and use it for HIS glory...IF we submit to Him and ruthlessly follow and obey Him and let Him heal us.
i don't have the vocabulary to express my thankfulness to you both for this website, your ministry, and the time you have spent talking and emailing with us. it has been a big instrument in saving our family.
i can only imagine how difficult this can be for you both, to relive this and to share what God has taught you through difficult times. but i pray that God protects you from satan tempting you with thoughts of "is this worth it". i know you see that it IS worth it, but i hope that you won't have inklings of doubt...ever! :)
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