I wish I read this most a few months before my wedding.I am also incredibly anxious about being the center of attention and very infrequently talk publicly. I thought about our ceremony and my anxiety for at least the last three months of our engagement. I was feeling the same exact way, so so nervous that I was going to pass out, get overly emotional, make awkward sounds and faces. I was so scared that I actually thought about the priest marrying us ahead of time. I wound up drinking a mimosa or two while getting ready and was so excited that I barely had time to be nervous.