I started by only nursing her morning and evening and she seemed happy with that. Then a couple of days ago, I offered her a cup of water and solids at breakfast, a bottle a little later on before her nap, a bottle of formula at night and she hasn't asked to nurse since. I'm sure she would if I offered, but I think it's just easier to go along with her. At least on that end. I am slightly uncomfortable though.

Good for you. We are currently weaning after 10 months, almost exactly, of breastfeeding and I have yet to be as honest as this about it.

You need to do what works for you. And if you, Nate and Graham are happier and more rested, then so be it. :)